Good day to all Steemians. Today I will share everyone my own love story as my entry for #wylschallenge contest hosted by @haneun. Please bear with me because I am not a good writer.
Love Finds No Distance
It was December of 2008 I met husband throug oline dating. I had no idea how it work at first because I did not have idea of how to use computers, but I was with my bestfriend everytime she chat and spent time with her fiance in the cafe right after our work shift she does it everyday and of course shes my bestfriend Im with her to be her companion going back home late night becoz they finished talking eachother very late, was just sat and wait her done I fell asleep lot of times though.
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One day she asked me to try find Mr.Right in the net, but she made it sounds like a joke, she didn't want to offend me I think so she made it sounds that way. I answered okay I will give a try. So she made everything ready for me , she made me an email and enrolled me to a dating site where she met her fiance. She spent time teaching me how it works during her free time. She was chatting using my email for few weeks, was just reading every word she put in. Till last week of December 2008 a white man popped up and wanted to see what I look like, that was the first time that I touched those keys.
But my story is not quick like other couples that met online. We spent a year emailing and talking , get to know eachother before we became lovers :)
He is a US Air Force veteran and I worked in the private company that manufacture automotive wire harnesses. We spent talking right after my shift and we do our best doing it everyday.
Just like other couples/relationship , we had ups and downs, we had arguments, fights and lots of misunderstandings. And that is the situations or problems that we deal for chosing a long distance relationship.
It was 2013 he surprised me, we were in skype. He left for few minutes and asked me to wait. He came back with smile in his face and showed a small box in his hand and kneeled down, showed me the ring asking me a question that every woman wants to hear. It was the best words I heard in my whole life. He goes Baby will you marry me?. Of course a big Yes from me😊
We tried doubled the time we spent together skyping. It was hard to be honest
because sometime the devil tried his best
to ruin our relationship. Eventhough we were engaged there is no security that he or I,will not fell in any temptations.
In 2014 of December my fear become reality. We broke up I found out through his friend that He found another filipina so we chose to separate our way. It was very sad but I have to accept it.
After few monts of not communicating, he rings me asking of how Im doing.I told him Im getting over what happened. After that day he keep calling me everyday and asked me if we can talked skype again I still love him though so I gave him an okay answer. He explained me this and that I was just listening and said okay lets give another try
September 01 2015 he asked me to checked my email. His telling me he got a surprised for me so I checked. I was speechless It was his flight details going to Philippines to visit me here and to marry me 💑
September 09 2015 at 11: 55 pm he stepped out from the airport. I was very excited to met the man I waited for long years to marry. We spent few days, 19 days together busy doing our papers for us to get married. It was very frustrating though
we had lots of troubles processing our papers,because in my town they asked lots of requirements that made my fiancee mad, but we did not have a choice we should follow the law here.
And one of those requirements was we need to attend the 2 days Family Planning Seminar, so we do what they wanted us to do. During those two days of sitting for 8 Hours a day was made my fiancee very unhappy because he did not understand every single words of every speakers for two days. I had hard time to make him cool. I tried to translate everything to him about the seminar. That was disappointing to be honest.
We did everything and still we did not get us schedule to be marry in our town.
So we tried to look in other City and got lucky we met few nice people out in there they helped us and not gave us hard time, and have us scheduled fast
That was a big relief for us .
September 28 2015 at 10 am we got married.
September 29 2015 @ 8 pm. He flew back to United States.
After a long wait and patience we are married and eventhough we are still waiting the time for God to brings us together again physically forever. I can say We are happily married.