Any man who is intimidated by a feminist is in no way comfortable with his sexuality.
You can take a seat and sip slowly from the cup of education.
God isn't speaking to anyone to sexually molest girls in India or trade them for sex.
God isn't speaking to anyone to marry off a 14 year old girl in Northern Nigeria, milk a child from her and leave her to suffer from fistula.
God isn't speaking to anyone to tell women to shut up when they have wisdom.
God isn't speaking to anyone to hit a woman, to abuse her in other ways, to not let her get proper education, to not let her get justice, to not let her he human.
That is your stupid ego and mentality.
That is your yearning need to satisfy your low self esteem.
That is not the voice of God.
If God wanted that,
Esther would not be Queen
Deborah would not be judge
Mary would not be the mother of the saviour of the world
That is your ego whispering to you
Women have always been great
Women have always been stubborn
It did not start with Chimamanda
Uncomfortable men just did not like the fact that a woman can.
If you are not comfortable with a loud woman, a successful woman, a comfortable woman, a human woman, that is your personal hell because women are not going anywhere.
Being anti-feminist is out of ignorance
Feminism is for six year old Bisi working as a maid because her father could not pay a debt
Feminism is for Kemi is Italy who was promised a place to lay her back. If only she knew a man would be above.
Feminism is for Aisha who yearns to read and write but has to watch her brothers run off to school every morning while she's at the water well.
Feminism is for Grace who looks nothing like her name because she has been in the kitchen since morning while the men sit around the table discussing Michelangelo and Shakespeare.
Feminism is for Mrs Obi who works overtime and cover shifts but still has to get minimum wage because she doesn't wear a penis.
Feminism is not for mediocre, insecure, fainthearted, ancestral thinking man.
Feminism doesn't ask for equality, it seeks for opportunity
It is not angry. You are just angry gender role doesn't make sense for once in your life.
A religious Christian will cry foul when treated the same way they treat Muslims
A man will cry foul when treated the same way he treats a woman.
Then picks up the garment of Paul and the sword of age and the belt of a penis to argue.
No rationality
No intelligence
Just a sex organ
You are perhaps stupid by chance?
A penis is not an accreditation or a sign you are better.
A penis is not an indication of maturity or entitlement.
A penis is a penis is a penis is a penis.
As simple as it is.
But no, to you, it's a recognized accomplishment
"What did you do with life?"
"Oh, life? I was a man till death"
But if a woman chooses to be recognised for what gives life to a man, she should be quiet and make garri.
Your sense was fried with the cassava.
As simple as that.
You are anti feminist but you greet your church Mama while standing and address her as "Ma"
Then call your wife "my friend"
Idiot you are
You admire the Pastor's girls but you are planning towards when your daughter will give you bride price
You my friend are insane
The "religious" people you look up to are doing the most.
Sending their daughters abroad.
Having paid professional helps at home.
Making sure their kids look plum and it.
But you would rather the women around you bow down and worship you as a majesty when you do not deserve it.
You listen to Sinach, Tasha Cobbs, Tamela Mann and a whole bunch of them.
Then reference how Paul told the church in Corinth that women should be quiet.
I laugh
If you are a man uncomfortable with a woman's power
You are whiny chicken
The greatest way for centuries to make it in life is
To be white
Or
To be male
Both ways, you get away with being a womanizer, being a cheater, being a pedophile, being an abuser, being a fake preacher, being unintelligent, being poor, being lazy, being dirty and unkempt
But no more.
The job of a woman is not to help a man.
The job of a woman is to be herself fully, wholly and completely.
The job of a woman is to grow and make sure she is recognized for her own gift.
