So you are unique and stand out in a crowd or a room. Along the way, you have been told in order to fit in you must dress and abide by rules. My question is..whose? You were told if you are over 50 you must dress the part. I guess wear brown and blacks and chop your hair off if you are a woman. Now that you have done that, who are you pleasing and taking a vote. You look in the mirror and hate the the look. I say let's walk on the wild side. What is your wish and what will make you happy. It takes G-U-T-S to be unique and different. The world frowns on the unique and different. I say, do what pleases you and what makes you stand out whether it is your hair, clothing or the way you talk and walk. Fashion is make believe and I say throw it away. Take what looks good on you and makes you feel VAVOOM and walk on the wild side with it. I love it when I see people who adopt their own style and sometimes they do use a piece of the fashion or style current but make it fabulous. I admire any one whether they are young or old or skinny or not but have a flair that is distinctly their own. There will be no arrests if you adopt a style that is fun, feel good and you love it. ADOPT IT AND FEEL THE MAGIC OF YOU.