For no one is a secret, that as parents we will always see our children, like children, and we will never be prepared to face the changes that come in the future, in relation to their life.
We are not prepared for the phrase that children are borrowed, they are from life. One is responsible for providing love, education, values and make them a great person to be able to defend in the future.
What is the appropriate age for my daughter to have her first boyfriend?
Children, when they become teenagers, begin to experience a series of physical and emotional changes, where they also come to reflect the word love.
They can come to feel affection, towards a friend, by teachers in an innocent way, and it can happen at any age, since feelings are always present in the person, the ideal is to know how to act at all times .
We must teach children to differentiate love in its various stages, and that there is time for everything, that they should not rush to live all at once. They can fall in love but living a serious relationship is when they have some age, are responsible, and able to control certain emotions, it is said that normal is when they reach the age of majority, but there is always that school love that marks the life of all an ante and an after.
What should I do when my daughter tells me that she has a boyfriend and I think she is very young?
It is important that you do not act in an uncontrolled way and tell your daughter that you do not accept it, since when teenagers only hear negative, they end up doing the opposite of the things that parents say.
You must listen carefully to what your children say, give a positive opinion and even show interest in knowing who your first love would be, to have a clear idea of the people with whom your children share.
You must say that you are happy that you feel in love and want to share some of your actions with another person, but that living with a person also generates responsibilities.
What should I make my daughter understand?
You must show him that feeling love for someone is very nice, and reflects that he cares for others.
He must learn to differentiate between the various types of love that may exist, that do not feel that they are influenced by others.
Having a boyfriend when you are a teenager is not because of fashion, or because my friend has a boyfriend, it is because you are sure that they love you and that you also feel something beautiful for that person.
The love that makes someone cry and make someone sad is not a real love, since it only generates tranquility and security.
Children should experience love according to their age and not pretend to be adults, all in due time.
Love in youth is more to share great moments with a very special person, like going to the movies, going to a party or talk about a book of interest, it is an innocent love.
It is important that parents always talk with their children about the importance of love, what it means to share part of your life with another person, what it is to be jealous and trusting, that nothing forced is good, and that in life they will live many types of love