Hello my friends of @steemiteducation today life has taught us many things among which are the values, basic principles of survival in this great world, education, history and emotional feelings of which we must carry daily in our heart and mind Today I want to talk a little about several phrases that we should avoid when correcting our little children when they are crying. I hope they can help each of them:
1- Stop crying: When we say this to our children we are repressing their emotions and causing the crying to become something negative, without realizing we are playing down their feelings and causing difficulties in your life adult since when they grow up they will not know how to express their feelings and they will not know how to be in solidarity with their neighbor, to avoid all these consequences it is important that you ask him because he cries, what happens to him, help him to overcome those moments of crying because for us it is something simple and unimportant but for them it is cause for pain and anguish.
2- I'm going to hit you so that you cry for something: Studies of the world health organization studies that children who receive threats and punishments to calm down are more prone to manifest attacks of behaviors and physical attacks and verbal to their parents, unfortunately when the victims of this abuse reach adulthood tend to develop diseases and emotional disorders causing problems of obesity and alcoholism among others, do not educate your child to the blows when he cries, show your love, attention and worry when you feel sad or angry.
3- Children do not cry: Crying is an emotion that children are likely to feel equally, to teach otherwise is to deprive children since childhood to express their feelings and that way to reach adulthood with bitterness and a macho idea that instead of helping and training them harms and hurts them, motivates your child to express their feelings without feeling embarrassed about it.
4: Do not be exaggerated: With this sentence we only downplay the feelings of our children causing them to distrust who else should have it as their parents if far from advising them and helping them to feel understood when they Something serious happens, they will avoid seeking our help, believing that we do not care about their problems, do not let your children keep growing with that erroneous idea in their minds, show all your interest in their problems and whatever happens, always listen to them.
5- Vete that I do not want to see you cry: Imagine that someone told you to suppress your anger, your tears and all your emotions you did not like, right? Well, neither of them! When hearing this phrase children automatically think that they can not count on the support of their parents and family because the only thing that is achieved by saying this phrase is that they do not have the support and support of the people they love the most in the world, Understanding love and empathy will be the motivation for your children to learn to express their emotions, these are fundamental keys so that your children can create a better world!
