LET YOUR SEED GERMINATE!
I'm not a relationship expert. And I don't aspire to be one. But I've recently fallen victim of someone's rage. So, I'll keep this simple and straight.
Bruh, you've just met her; asked her her out; and got her contact. She might have been a total stranger, or a long time casual friend. But you've just confessed your interest in her.
Less than 24 hours later, you call to tell her you're madly in love with her; her absence in your physical environment stabs you; blah blah blah. And you expect similar confessions from her. But she has nothing pleasant to tell you. She can't say 'I love you' or 'I miss you' with ease, simply because she honestly doesn't! And you're pissed and heartbroken. It's not her fault.
Let's consider some natural science. In between the acts of planting and harvesting, a seed undergoes a whole lot of processes. I first germinates. It feeds on nutrients. It grows...etc.
So, on what basis is she supposed to love you? All you did was tell her you want to be in a relationship with her. Is that enough reason for her to have a genuine love for you? Was she born with a mandate to love you? Does she owe you romantic love as a debt?
Moreover, you don't miss someone you're not used to. How could she have missed a person she hasn't spent time with? Or invested in her?
Listen, bruh. You love her. No doubt about that. You 'miss' her. It's possible. But she's not you! Give her time to assure herself she can be in a healthy relationship with you, and genuinely love you.
Let the seed you sowed germinate. Feed and nourish it to a blossoming growth.
Then watch her love you back- from the depths of her heart! ... unless you want her to confess a love she doesn't possess or mean.
Just as we make financial investments and wait for them to mature,
I beg our men to dutifully wait and inspire heartfelt love in the ladies they desire to treasure.
The day she'll utter 'I love you', out of personal conviction, you'll be swept off your Feet.
Thanks for reading.
Happy new month.