Prostate milking is one of those things that divides the male community. On one hand, men who tried it say it’s the best thing since sliced bread. On the other hand, men who haven’t tried it can come up with a million reasons why they shouldn’t.
I’m one of those lucky men who tried it, and this is a humble attempt to convince more men to discover what they’re missing. For context, I’m a straight man with a straight female wife. And I enjoy getting my prostate massaged. A lot. In fact, I’ve had so much pleasure from it that I feel it’s a blessing to be shared.
What is the Prostate?
The prostate is a gland that can be found in front of the rectum and between the bladder and the penis. It’s about as large as a walnut.
When a person ejaculates, semen comes out. Semen is a combination of sperm cells and the white fluid that protects it. The prostate makes and secretes this fluid.
The prostate is also called the P-spot. And it’s essentially the male equivalent of the G-spot in women. But unlike the G-spot, the P-spot is really easy to find and stimulate.
There are many ways to get to it, and stimulating it feels absolutely mind-blowing. We’ll get to those later.
What is Prostate Milking?
Prostate milking is exactly what it sounds like. If you stimulate your prostate enough, it will secrete the fluid that it’s making, just like if you were masturbating. However, the fluid that comes out may not have sperm in it, so the color and consistency can be a little different.
Prostate milking is the best way for anyone with a prostate to orgasm. Nothing else comes close. It can even get you to orgasm multiple times in a matter of minutes. Trust me because my wife helped me achieve just that. And it was unforgettable.
Aside from its sexually pleasurable benefits, did you know that prostate milking is also beneficial to one’s health? There are limited studies that show the benefits of prostate milking for specific conditions like prostatitis and urine flow problems. These studies would call it prostate massaging, but it’s essentially the same thing.
What is a Prostate Orgasm?
Long before Sandra and I experimented with prostate milking, I never thought prostate orgasm was possible. I was used to having regular male orgasms through the stimulation of the penis. But believe me, this is a whole new kind of sensation. And there are times that I really crave for it.
A prostate orgasm is an orgasm that you can get while your prostate is being massaged. It feels very similar to a regular orgasm from the penis, except it feels like it affects the entire body. First-timers might be surprised at how good it can feel. I know I was. It left my body shaking and I couldn’t move much for a couple of minutes. I was just lying on the bed exhausted from the pleasure.
It was the kind of climax that I never really expected that I would totally enjoy.
Moreover, I used to think that men always release semen during a prostate massage orgasm, but this isn't always the case. You see, prostate orgasms can happen without any cum coming out. In addition, it can sometimes produce a clear liquid. This is the fluid that makes up regular semen without sperm in it. This is perfectly normal, so don’t be surprised if that’s happening to you. I experienced it several times myself so you have nothing to worry about.
Getting a prostate orgasm is a matter of learning the right techniques or using the right tools. If you can get used to having things poking around in your anal cavity, getting fingers or toys through there is the easiest way to get to a prostate orgasm. The prostate swells to about the size of an apricot when you’re aroused too, almost as if it’s making itself easier to find. Getting used to toys allows you to do it hands-free. If anal penetration is too much for you, there are ways to do it from the outside too.
Sandra and I have done a lot of experimenting and will share with you our story later on so you can also learn how to have a prostate orgasm!
Benefits of a Prostate Massage
Perhaps the most popular benefit is that it can take your orgasm to a whole new level. A prostate massage guarantees a one of a kind pleasure that's often likened to a woman’s orgasm when her G-spot is stimulated.
However, if the idea of having the best orgasms of your life isn’t enough to convince you to try it, prostate massages are also used as a diagnostic and treatment methods for some conditions that can affect the male reproductive system.
1. Diagnosing a Prostate Condition
As men grow old, they’re more prone to ailments related to their prostate. And many men know of the prostate exam. For the few who are uninitiated, a prostate exam involves a doctor inserting a tool or their finger in the anus and performing a prostate massage. By examining the prostate fluid, doctors can diagnose different prostate conditions. This may be the first time for many men to experience a prostate orgasm.
2. Prostatitis
The prostate can swell and become inflamed, causing prostatitis. As the prostate swells, a person can experience discomfort and pain while peeing. Pain can also be felt around the pelvis and the groin from this condition. To diagnose this condition, a doctor can perform a prostate massage to make the prostate secrete prostate fluid. The fluid is then tested to determine the problem.
The usual medicines for people with prostatitis are antibiotics and non-steroidal anti-inflammatory drugs. Prostate massages can help in the treatment of prostatitis by releasing the fluid build-up in the prostate. And some studies have shown that regular prostate massages together with antibiotics may in some cases provide relief from the pain caused by a swollen prostate.
3. Urine Flow Issues
A swollen prostate can also cause urine flow issues. Urine flows from the bladder to the penis through a tube called the urethra. The prostate surrounds the urethra. If the prostate swells, the urethra can get tighter, resulting in a weaker flow of urine. In worse cases, the prostate can completely block off the urethra. Hence, the flow of urine would be totally cut off.
Massaging the prostate reduces the amount of fluid inside it. Hence, having a male anal orgasm can cause the prostate to shrink a little, allowing urine to pass through.
4. Erection Problems
Men with erectile dysfunction are usually given medication, shots, or implants. In addition, pumps can also be used to help. For many men, erectile dysfunction can be treated through changes in lifestyle like maintaining a better diet and performing regular exercise. Especially pelvic floor exercises can also help.
While there are records of some men saying that their sexual pleasure and ejaculation improved while having a prostate massage, there isn’t enough scientific proof to confirm these claims.
Risks With Prostate Massage
By now you’re probably wondering if prostate massage is harmful to your health or not. While there are few risks to prostate massages, there are definitely some things to take note of while you’re doing it.
First and foremost, prostate massages shouldn’t be painful. Doing it too vigorously can cause some discomfort, and pain is a sign that you should slow things down.
The most common side effect of prostate massages is soreness in the rectum. This happens especially often for beginners who are still testing things out. While you should see this as a sign that you’re doing it too roughly, you shouldn’t worry about it too much. If you do the necessary preparations, you can reduce the risks of pain in the anus and the rectum. More on that later.
In the same vein, another significant risk for beginners is getting the prostate or rectum linings cut or torn. The tissues that line the rectum and the prostate are very delicate. Massaging these areas too much can lead to soreness at the least and bleeding at worst. Getting a wound along the rectum or the prostate is extremely dangerous and it can lead to a bacterial infection in an awkward part of the body and may worsen hemorrhoids.
If you are experiencing the symptoms of prostatitis or have any kind of prostate condition, you should consult your physician first. Those who suffer from epididymitis (inflammation of the tube between the vas deferens and the testicle) should avoid getting a prostate massage altogether.
Those with acute bacterial prostatitis should not engage in prostate massages. Even doctors will avoid doing manual prostate massages in these cases. Doing so will worsen the inflammation and help spread the harmful bacteria to the urethra, the other parts of the urinary tract, and eventually the bloodstream.
In the case of chronic prostatitis, there have been some studies that show that getting a male anal massage together with antibiotics can help in treatment. More studies need to be done on the subject though.
Men who have prostate cancer should avoid having prostate massages. The cancer cells in the tumor could come off as the prostate is being rubbed. This allows it to spread to close tissues.
Some studies have also shown that getting a prostate massage before taking a test for prostate cancer can tamper with the validity of the results of the test.
Prostate massages are mostly safe and many men have been doing it to feel good. I have been doing it for years and there hasn’t been a problem so far. However, I think this is something we should all be doing with caution because sometimes we easily get carried away. But as long as you do the necessary steps and precautions, you should be fine too.
How To Milk a Prostate?
Prostate massages can be done internally or externally. First off, internal prostate massages involve anal penetration and this is the most direct route since the prostate isn’t very hard to find this way. Why you may ask? You see, the prostate swells up when you’re aroused and feels very different compared to everything around it.
If you’re using a finger to milk your prostate, you’ll know when you find it. In addition, there are toys that you can find in most sex shops that are specifically designed to hit the prostate too.
You can’t just go through the anus without the proper preparations though. The anus isn’t designed to expand for a longer period of time, and forcing it may cause the anus to tear, causing wounds that are uncomfortable at best and dangerous at worst. We’ll discuss the preparations you need to do before you penetrate the anus later.
Doing it externally is a little harder, but still possible. For this you'll want to go through a specific spot in the skin between the balls and the anus. We’ll go through the specifics in a bit.
Can Straight Men Enjoy Prostate Milking?
Many people associate a specific stigma against anal penetration, saying it’s a gay man’s thing. This obviously extends to prostate milking as well.
However, I feel like I can speak on behalf of all of the straight men who have tried anal penetration when I say that we have the same anatomy. All men at birth have a prostate. And all prostate stimulation tend to feel good. That is a physiological truth.
The prostate is covered by a thin and pliable membrane called the prostatic plexus. The prostatic plexus has a high density of nerve endings, making it really sensitive to even the slightest touch. If that sounds familiar to you, it may be because the female G-spot is described in the same way.
The nerves in the prostate are partially responsible for the pair of erectile tissue that makes up the penis. By going straight for the prostate, you skip the middleman and get your pleasure where it feels best.
I have never been the kind of person who will let the presumptions of others influence whether I want to try something or not. Prostate milking just feels good, so I’ll keep doing it, stigma or not. And as a man who only wants to experience the best sensations in the world, this is something you have to absolutely try.
What Does A Prostate Orgasm Feel Like?
The feeling of a prostate orgasm isn’t easy to describe in words, but I’ll try anyway. To me, it feels like getting a warm wave pulsing through my body, sometimes for minutes at a time. My first prostate orgasm felt like it lasted for 20 minutes. It felt so amazing that I couldn’t move an inch. Imagine the feeling you get from climaxing from your penis, but extend that throughout the entire body and make it last for a lot longer. That’s what prostate orgasms feel like.
Prostate orgasms also feel different depending on how it’s being done. While I can make myself to prostate cum from toys or fingering, nothing beats getting Sandra to do it for me. Whether it’s a toy or her finger, as long as she’s in control, I always get the best orgasms. We’ve done it so much to the point that she knows exactly how to work my rectal cavity to get me to feel good.
In a way, it’s a bit like tickling a person. You see, tickling yourself really doesn’t work. But tickling somebody else can cause them to crumple in laughter. And tickling somebody through several layers of clothing can work, but it won’t be as effective. That’s why I don’t talk that much about external prostate milking. While it can be done, it’s a lot more work for a lot less effect. If you want the full experience of a prostate orgasm, go directly. Once you’ve had one, you will never look at it the same way again.
How To Prepare For Prostate Milking
Excited to learn how to milk a prostate? Great! But first thing first. Milking the prostate takes a lot of practice so if this is your first time, you need to prepare properly. You don’t want to ruin the whole experience just because you hurt your anus during the process. Good thing is there are a lot you can do before prostate masturbation to ensure you’re doing it right and safely.
1. Training
We mentioned earlier that the anus isn’t designed to open wide for a long time. However that doesn’t mean it can’t. You see, the anus can be trained to open up wider and wider until it can stretch wide enough to take an entire fist. Obviously, you don’t have to go that far to get a good prostate milking, but that just goes to show how much the anus can take.
Training the anus to stretch is a process that takes a long time. The easiest way to do it is with a set of anal beads that have increasing sizes. Using anal beads is a great way to track your anus’ training progress and allows you to take your stretching at your own pace.
If you’re a bit impatient, a finger should be small enough to get in there to have a feel of things. There’s really no problem with that, but it limits what you can do.
As for the regular preparations for prostrate milking, getting the rectal cavity clean is an important step for some people, especially for those who worry about getting poop debris stuck on their fingers or their toys. Do know that the rectal cavity is designed to expel its contents almost completely, so if there’s any debris still in there, there won’t be a lot.
2. Anal Douching
If you’re really worried, you can try taking an anal douche. Anal douching is the practice of inserting a fluid, usually a saline solution, into the anus. This is done to flush out whatever remaining debris there is in there. Sex shops will sell all the tools you need to get this done safely. And there are many guides online that will go into the specific steps in more detail (We have one in our anal sex guide for example).
Do be warned that anal douching is the kind of thing you’re not supposed to do often. Doing it too often will irritate the sensitive lining of the rectum. In worse case it can start to wound and develop bacterial infections which can land you a quick trip to the emergency room.
Also, douching isn’t an almighty thing. Getting poop on your stuff is a matter of when, not if. Expect it to happen to you and try not to take it too seriously when it does. Few things can kill a sexy mood faster than somebody panicking because they got poop on their finger. All you really need to do is wash up and restart.
3. Anal Lubricants
Any article on anal penetration will have a section on how important it is to lubricate. If this is your first article on anal penetration, welcome! This message is for you. Always lube up before and during anal sex. Unlike the vagina, the anus cannot produce its own lubricant. Forcing anything through an unlubricated anus never goes well.
No matter how much an anus is trained to stretch, penetration without lubricants will cause tearing and wounds along the anal lining. It doesn’t take a lot of imagination to figure out why that’s bad. Poop contains a lot of bacteria, and getting poop on a wound is a sure fire way to get infected. That’s another trip to the emergency room.
Applying lubricant is a sort of ritual for us. First, apply a lot of lubricant around the anus with the index finger. Then, insert the index finger up to the first line of the finger. Repeat this step three times with the finger going deeper and deeper each time until the anus is lubricated enough. We apply the lubricant while we’re in foreplay, so there’s a bit of stroking and fingering going on. This also helps us get in the mood for the anal ahead. (We like this anal lube btw!)
If you don’t want the mess of lubricants on your finger, sex shops also sell lube shooters/launchers. A lube shooter is a sort of syringe that is designed to get your lubricant where it’s supposed to go.
There are a lot of anal lubricants in the market and it can be difficult to choose which one to get. When picking a lubricant, I always go through a bunch of criteria. The first thing I look at is the material. Silicone-based lubricants feel amazing. They’re the right combination of slippery, rich, and long-lasting. The big downside to them is the fact that they don’t play well with silicone-based toys. They usually work on condoms though. Water-based lubricants last for a lot less time and don’t feel as rich as their silicon-based counterparts, but they work on anything. There are oil-based lubricants too, but they don’t work well with toys or condoms.
Beginners may want to consider getting a lubricant with a numbing ingredient in it. These can dull the pain of anal penetration HOWEVER it can also reduce the pleasure of it significantly. Just like the P-spot and the G-spot, the anus also contains a dense cluster of nerves that can be sexually stimulated. You’ll lose out on a lot of pleasure by making the anus numb, but you can still get to a prostate orgasm easily.
4. Don’t Forget to Bring a Towel
Prostate orgasms are a lot messier than your average penis orgasm. I didn’t have a towel the first time I tried it and we ended up needing to get the entire mattress washed. It was really messy, but I didn’t want to kill the mood by stopping suddenly to ask Sandra to get me a towel. I did what I had to do to keep going. Was the mess worth the pleasure? Definitely yes.
5. Get Excited
We mentioned in this article that getting aroused causes the prostate to swell. As it swells, it becomes easier to find and stimulate whether you’re going internally or externally.
Getting aroused also serves a second function. You see, arousal causes the sphincter muscles to loosen up making it easier to stick your preferred tool in, whether it’s a finger, a toy, or a penis.
Prostate Massage Using Your Finger/Partners Finger
Chances are, your first experience with prostate massages is with a finger. Whether it’s for medical purposes or sexual pleasure by yourself, or with a partner, the finger is a great way to get to the prostate with full control. I find that getting a prostate massage from my partner’s finger feels a lot more intimate too.
If you want to try getting a prostate massage with a finger, there are a few things you should know before you start.
1. Trim Your Nails
Giving your nails a good trim and clean may seem like a chore, but even nails can cause cuts in the delicate lining of the prostate and the rectum. It’s really important that you trim your nails before you start so you don’t risk any kind of injury in there.
Apart from getting a cut in awkward places, another good reason to trim your nails is the fact that dust, germs, and bacteria can cling to the underside of your nails. When you start poking around in there, you run the risk of leaving the dirt and germs in the rectal canal. It should be obvious why you don’t want that.
2. Wash your hands
Washing your hands is an all-around good habit to have since you know the kind of stuff you touch throughout your day. Hence, you want to wash your hands before you even start poking in there for the same reasons why you need to trim your nails.
3. Use a Glove or a Condom
You can never be too safe when it comes to sticking things inside your body. Apart from trimming your nails and washing your hands thoroughly, using a medical glove makes you 99% safe against getting any foreign contaminants from your hands into your body. If you’re worried about how it’s going feel in there, it feels pretty much like a condom, except it’s on your finger. If you’re still uncomfortable about the idea, you can always use a condom on your finger instead. It will be a weird fit, but it should work just fine.
4. Never Go from Anal to Vaginal
While you’re in the heat of passion, you might feel the desire to go from one hole to the other. Resist that urge. Never go from anal to vaginal. If you really want to, you can change the glove or condom that you’re using before you switch. Or wash your hands thoroughly before you switch, but that might take too long and kill the mood.
The rectal lining is filled with bacteria that are supposed to be there. Taking that bacteria and putting it into the vagina may cause unpredictable reactions like infections.
5. Techniques to Try with a Finger
Come here – Insert the index finger into the anal sphincter with the palm side facing upwards. Start by curling the index finger upward towards the belly as if you were asking somebody to come closer. Try to use as much of the surface of the tip of your finger as you do this. Explore around the cavity this way until you start hitting his prostate (don't worry you'll know from his reaction hihi). When you find it, try slowly increasing the speed and force of the motion.
Circles – With the palm facing downwards, run the tip of your index finger around the perimeter of the prostate gland. You can use both the knuckle joint and the wrist to allow your finger to move around while switching the contact surface between the pad of the finger and the nail. As the pleasure builds, you can increase the speed of the motion and change the path of stimulation
Doorbells – With the palm facing downwards, use the tip of the index finger to press on the prostate like you would on a doorbell. Even the slightest touch is enough to provide a lot of stimulation. Try changing the intervals between touches as the pleasure builds up.
Prostate Massage Using a Toy
It shouldn’t come as a surprise that sex toy manufacturers have developed toys that are designed for prostate pleasure. They all feature a similar design and can vary in colors, materials, firmness, and features.
1. Vibrating Prostate Massagers
Vibrating prostate massagers don’t take a lot of effort. They’re mostly just a plug and play thing. Find the controls for the vibration and have fun!
Prostate vibrators are usually fairly large. And they’re definitely larger than the untrained sphincter. Before purchasing one, make sure you’ve had your sphincter sufficiently trained.
2. Non-vibrating Prostate Toys
Women love their vibrators, but when it comes to men, non-vibrating toys are king. The name “Aneros” is a name that commands respect among prostate massage enthusiasts. Aneros is a company that makes patented non-vibrating prostate massagers. And they’re so good at what they do that there’s a type of hands free prostate orgasm named after them: the Aneros Super O. The Aneros Super O is an intense chain of orgasms that can last for minutes.
Instead of relying on vibrations to do the work, non-vibrating prostate massagers use both your Kegel and sphincter muscles to provide pleasure. However, there’s a bit of technique to this. The first thing when using one of them is to mime the attempt to stop yourself from peeing. This will activate both your Kegel and sphincter muscles. Hold on to that position for 2-3 minutes and release the muscles for a bit, then activate them again. It’s a bit difficult at first, but the orgasms are definitely worth it.
After a few cycles of this, your muscles will begin to get tired. When they do, they will start shaking and trembling. This is what sets off the pleasure. As they tremble, your ass will feel like it’s forcing itself shut by absorbing the massager. Of course, this isn’t possible because of the design of the massager’s arms. What ends up happening is a constant wave of pleasure unlike anything else.
Getting to the actual prostate pleasure with a non-vibrating prostate massager takes time. For some, it takes under 30 minutes. For others, it can take more than an hour. It’s best to set aside a lot of time for a night with an Aneros prostate massager. This all sounds dubious on paper, but trust me. The minds from Aneros know what they’re doing.
3. Strap-ons
Strap-ons are the pinnacle of role-reversal play. However, you can’t just stick on any old dildo and expect it to be as effective as a prostate massager. Dildos that also work as prostate massagers are curved in a specific way too.
External Prostate Massage
Reaching the prostate externally is a matter of finding the right spot in the perineum. The perineum is the area in between your balls and your anus. It’s is also referred to as the gooch or the taint.
Because the prostate sits near the back of the rectal cavity, it also sits right above the perineum. And there’s a specific point along the perineum that you have to hit to get the most out of your external prostate massage.
The perineum is composed of two parts. The front area just underneath the end of the penis has a lot more flesh and muscle in it. Trying to go through there won’t work very well. The right position is in the back area of the perineum. This area is a lot softer and has a thinner skin and muscle wall. If you’re aroused enough, the prostate can expand large enough to be accessible through there.
If you have an erection, try poking around one side of your shaft just underneath your scrotum. As you feel around the area, you might find a small lump that isn’t the inner shaft of your penis. As you stroke and stimulate this area, you’ll find that it feels very different from the regular penis stroking. It should work on the other side too.
Even though you’re approaching it from the outside, you should still be careful while stroking it. The prostate gland is delicate enough that even rough stimulation from the perineum is enough to cause some damage to it. You can tell when you’ve gone too far when it starts to feel irritating or painful. Just rest for a while to let it recover, then try again slowly.
While it’s not as effective, external prostate massages can cause prostate orgasms too. It’s best to follow the precautions mentioned earlier, especially the one about getting a towel. God knows I underestimated Sandra’s ability to stimulate my prostate from the outside and my mattress still has the marks to prove it!
Positions To Try
There are many different positions that allow you or a partner to stimulate your prostate. These are a few to start with. Hopefully, these can open a whole world of experimentation for you and your partner to enjoy.
1. Prone
The prone position offers a lot of freedom for either of your hands to reach into the butt or perineum area. There’s also more than enough arm length to get the entire finger in. To do it solo, just lie down comfortably with your body facing the bed. Your hands should be free to reach in wherever you’re comfortable. You can also add a few pillows where it’s needed.
As a partner position, being prone gives your partner an excellent angle for entry. The penetration depth isn’t too deep, but we really aren’t going for depth here. To start, assume the prone position with the legs slightly split apart. This gives your partner a lot of room to play around the butt and perineum area. If you add a few pillows under the belly area, you can also open up the penis for stimulation.
While this position leaves the prostate stimulation areas open, it leaves little for the receiver to do apart from receiving.
2. Legs Up
The legs up position can be a challenge of stamina when done solo, but the angle and pressure that it offers is worth it. Lie on your back on the bed. Lift your knees towards your chest keep them in place with one of your arms. Your other hand will now be able to reach your anus. You will notice that the added pressure from the position affects the tightness of the rectal cavity.
To turn this into a partner position, you can use both of your hands to hold on to your legs instead. Your partner can kneel in front of your exposed anus and perineum to stimulate your prostate both ways at once.
3. On the Side
Getting to the anus while lying on your side is a lot easier than it sounds. It’s not as physically demanding as doing it on your back too. Lie on your side and move your outer leg upward so your knee is close to your chest. You can hold on to it with one of your arms or let it fall down on the bed. Your anus and perineum are now open for business.
As a partner position, the side position also gives your partner free rein over your anus. Your partner can sit behind you. If you’re flexible enough, they may be able to play with your perineum too.
4. Doggy
The doggy style should be an obvious choice for prostate play. It offers a lot of room for experimentation for both solo and partner play too. The position is exactly like the regular doggy style position whether it’s for solo or partner play. For solo play, the anus and perineum can be reached through the gap between the legs or behind the back. For partner play, all they have to do is kneel behind you and they can have their way with you.
Our First Prostate Massage Story
I will never forget the first time that Sandra and I tried prostate milking. I think it was one of the best sexual experimentations we ever had as a couple.
I’ve always been aware of how sensitive the prostate is because Sandra can be very naughty at times. She has this habit of pressing her finger in my perineum whenever we have sex. And that tingling sensation caused by her action actually made my orgasms more pleasurable at times.
One day I read this article about prostate milking and I shared it with her. She actually felt excited about it and suggested we do it without any toys. We have a collection of vibrators and dildos but I thought that time that I wanted to take things slow. Hence I told her that her finger or mine will do.
Well I don’t want our milking session to be messy so I told her we will do it on a weekend. To prepare, I ate less and made sure I cleaned my anus properly. I didn’t really do douching that time because unlike Sandra, I’m not that adventurous. There are times when I still feel scared of trying some kinky things.
Sandra and I started with a bit of foreplay. We kissed each other torridly on the bed and started undressing each other while doing so. She was on top of me and she started kissing my face, neck, and chest while her hands caressed my cock and balls. I was aroused and if I had it my way, I would have loved to pin her on the bed and made love to her until she came. But as what she said, this wasn’t about her at all. It was about me experiencing my first prostate milking.
She was giving me a deep throat blow job and I almost came when she didn’t stop. Sandra was such a tease! She told me to roll over so she was right behind me while I was in a doggy position. I was ready and I knew she was more excited than I was.
It was my first time to have something inserted inside my anus so I reminded her that we should take it slowly but surely and she agreed. She said she wanted to “finger” me herself and I said yes.
I watched as she took a condom and a tube of lube on the bedside table. I was excited and a little scared at the same time. Suddenly, I felt her finger in my rectum while one hand caressed my cock. She was making me even more aroused as I felt her slowly inserting her finger inside my anus. At first I didn’t feel anything but as my anus stretched to accommodate her finger, I felt a little discomfort, like I wanted to poop.
Soon, she had her whole finger up my ass and I felt it massaging my prostate. It was a wonderful feeling. She started moving her finger in circles and I moaned with pleasure. It was amazing! I begged her not to stop and it wasn’t long before I felt this tingling sensation that started to build up inside me. Seconds later, I screamed as I came. I felt like it would never stop and I collapsed on the bed with Sandra’s finger still inside me. Then I felt her slowly removed it and again- the pleasure was electrifying.
I didn’t move for about two minutes as I savor the aftermath of what we just did. It was nothing like I’ve ever experienced before. I knew right there and then I would be begging her to do it to me once in a while. It also gave me the idea that I can do it myself, too which I did eventually.
Prostate massage is one thing you should definitely try whether solo or with a partner. Try it now to know exactly what I mean!
/Tim
Originally published on https://www.mysextoyguide.com/prostate-massage/