INTRODUCTION
Everyone desires to be confident, yet very few have been able to
develop it in all facets of their life. A lack of self-confidence can
ultimately become the most significant hindrance to finding
happiness, success, and fulfillment.
Unfortunately, too many people often are unable to see the
effects low self-confidence has on their lives, blaming their
failures on outside factors instead. They blame a tough dating
scene for not finding the right partner.
They are desperate to find a better job but don't know where to
start because the job market is so competitive. They wish they
could follow their dreams but can't afford to fail. On the surface,
these kinds of excuses seem like they are legitimate outside
barriers, keeping us from finding true happiness.
However, when further examined, the justifications are all rooted
in a lack of self-confidence. Past experiences have helped to
develop your current mindset, and the past unknowingly plagues
us as we grow into adults.
As adults, we often waste a ton of energy attempting to appear
confident rather than developing real confidence.The importance society puts on outside appearances only reinforces the pressure
to show false confidence.
This is just intensified with the popularity of reality television and
social media. It has become the norm for our society to appear
one way to everyone else, rather than focusing on making the
changes internally that will allow us to alter our sense of self.
For example, many people will post photoshopped images to their
social media profiles in the hope of garnering a ton of likes to help
increase their shaky self-esteem. Hence, the façade of confidence
trumps genuine, unwavering confidence.
So, many people are afraid to admit they lack confidence because
it is seen as a personal weakness, while others wish they could
have more confidence, but don’t know where to start.
If you suffer from a lack of confidence, it will continue to hold you
back, even if you become adept at faking it. The great news is,
you can be one of the few people that learn how to build an
undeniable, persistent, and genuine level of self-confidence that
won’t be affected by outside circumstances.
This guide will provide you with the tips and strategies to develop
confidence in all areas of your life. You will also learn the ways
you can develop a strong sense of self and unconditional self-love
to get you through any challenges that you might face in your life.
The only difference between those who are successful and those
who fail in life is the willingness to keep trying. Having confidence
will provide you with the drive and the ability to work toward your
goals without your limiting beliefs standing in your way.