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If after everything, the guy leaves or breaks her heart, she would come and start shouting "All guys are the same!"?
She could have avoided this. I know her and she loves romantic gestures, and this guy is not close to it. That is one of his “many crimes.”
The truth is, on the other hand, we have different ways in which we show emotions but we should be willing to learn if the other person actually means something to us. I think the guy doesn’t want to learn, maybe he felt she is underserved or maybe that's just him.
Well, like I said earlier, maybe this is just what he's like. She is not his kind of person and obviously, the guy is not her kind of person. At least when it comes to her expectations and what she looks for in a relationship, so why endure what will give you a lifetime of sorrow and pain?
People often wonder how I make my decisions without thinking too much about it. They wonder how I just let go like nothing happened, and that is because I anticipate things.
It hurts me deep inside but what's the point? That’s what I ask myself most of the time. I always think about the future. I always put the future in view. Once I know I won't appreciate it in the future, I cut it off right away now.
For other ladies, they might like this kind of a nonchalant guy, and this guy wouldn’t need to change anything or alter much. This is just a perfect warning sign for my friend to know that her emotion is on the line, except she is willing to adapt to his kind of person, but I know it would kill her inside.
The way forward? Let go. Let him find his kind and she should seek her kind. A relationship should not be this hard.
Heed the warning signs. Cry now and enjoy your relationship later than to endure it now and spend a lifetime in wishing you can go back to change your decision.
Warning signs are there for us to think with future in mind. Sadly, most of us think with no future in mind. We think of now, which leads us to make hasty decisions and spend a lifetime in pain, over a decision that could have been corrected.
This applies to every sphere of life. Don’t forget the warning signs. They are not always there for you to change your mind, but at least it gives you a moment of reflection where you can be honest with yourself and decide how your life will go.
It gives you a moment to think of being careful. Always remember, our choices determine how we will turn out. Let your decisions be what you know you will be proud of in years to come.
Watch out for the warning signs and be objective.
Thank you for your time.
My pen doesn’t bleed, it speaks, with speed and ease.
Still me,
My tongue is like the pen of a ready writer.
Olawalium; (Love’s chemical content, in human form). Take a dose today: doctor’s order.