Hello steemians,
Apperently, i have written two episodes concerning the tips on how to make her happy.In these my episode in will do my best to conceal it carefully.
Remember women can feel differently about sex.
Listen everyone, When your woman does not want to have sex with you, don’t take it personally. Once you understand that a woman's "warm-up time" is much longer than a man's and that she needs to be forewarned so that she can anticipate it, things become much easier. It's not about you.
Very often she just wants to be close to you, to snuggle and be cuddled. Of course, whenever that happens you think about sex. Hold your horses, not so fast! It DOES NOT mean that she wants sex. If you insist on it every time she comes close to you, she will start avoiding you.
You scare her off. Take it easy; take your time. Once she gets into it, she WILL enjoy it as much, or maybe even more than you do, but patience is an operative word. Now, if she insists she doesn’t want any pre-marital sex, let her be. Respect that decision of hers. Its either you accept this or breakup with her to find someone that will go all the way with you. It’s not a do or die affair.
Cook for her
A great way to show her how much you care is to make her a meal. Breakfast in bed, dinner after a long day at work, a surprise lunch at her office: do whatever makes sense for you two. Having to cook, especially after a tough day, can be really stressful. Taking that pressure off of her will bring a smile to her face.
Give thoughtful, targeted gifts
Giving her a gift is, of course, a great way to make her happy. However, skip on the necklaces and rings. You might as well be giving those to just about any girl, right? Instead, give her something that says "I get you". This might mean tickets to her favourite concert. Don't just buy anyhow gift, think of something she really needs or something she wishes to buy. Let your gift be a targeted one that will meet her need.
Compliment her in the right way
Compliments are a sure bet to making a woman happy, as they are with anyone, but you have to compliment correctly.
Don't compliment her on things like her figure, because then she will stress about keeping it nice. You also shouldn't compliment her on things like her hair or eyes. Everyone has hair and eyes. Instead compliment her on things that she has control over: an excellent taste in clothes, a highly-trained skill or talent, a good sense of humor, etc.
*Do things together with her
Your woman likes to spend time with you...that's why she's with you after all! If you're busy or you don't get to see her very often, it's important to spend quality time with her. Do things together that give you a chance to really talk, like having a dinner date or going on a walk to the park. She'll probably have ideas for things she'd like to do, so ask her too!
Always Say how you feel
Women need to be told that they are truly loved. Some men erroneously think that their actions like working and providing for the family clearly communicates their love for their women. They often think that the more they work, the stronger the message of their love is. Wrong again. Nothing can substitute looking in her eyes and telling her: "I love you." We need to hear that always. It is called reaffirmation.
Focus on your bedroom skills
Becoming better in bed is a good goal for everyone. Even if you think you're a king, you probably have at least a little room for improvement. Study female anatomy and erogenous zones. Better yet, ask her for a refresher course on making her feel incredible. She'll love the chance to show you just how she likes it.
Encourage her
Encourage her to pursue her dreams and goals in life. If she finds something that makes her happy, give her the space and tools she needs to do that thing. She would do the same for you happiness: this is how relationships work!.
Make her feel like everything she's ever wanted to be
Every woman had ideas about what she wanted to be when she was younger. Maybe she wanted to be a really good mom, or maybe she wanted to be a problem solver. No matter what her fundamental desires were, help her to feel like with you she meets those goals. This means giving her opportunities and compliments, and encouraging her to do the things that she wants to do.
Be fun!
Everybody wants to be with someone who makes their life more interesting. We don't want a boring partner! Be the source of fun in her life by keeping your activities varied and unique.
Sign the two of you up for dance lessons at the local community center. Take her on a hiking trip for the weekend. Anything that suits her personality and keeps you doing new things together! Both of you should travel once in a while to a place you've never been before. It spices up your relationship and gives her fresh memories to always remember.
Thanks for your time, still your friend @setapart.
