"Speed kills",
This is the message you see on most of our bill boards when ever you are traveling.
And this message is relevant and true with our relationship just as it is with our roads.
There's no hurry in a relationship.
People who hurried into it usually pray to get out.
And by that time, it becomes too late.
It's crazy.
Very ridiculous!
How can you meet a man today and within days you are already thinking of getting married to him?
Before you get into a serious relationship, you need to get to know the person very well.
Don't let his or her appearance becloud your sense of reasoning.
Just about anyone you meet can dazzle you for a little while with charm, politeness and brilliance.
But when you stay with them long enough, their real character will begin to show through.
Don't rush into his arms yet.
Get to know whether his outward behavior is a true reflection of his character.
By so doing, you won't have to pray to get out when you get in.