I've learned that human being can't ever change since my teenage age but until now I'm still wondering why people are so possessed till extend they don't even think what could happen in future or even presently when they do some things
I lived with my Grand Mother in my teenage age and my uncle his family (his wife and children)
His wife is so wicked till extend she don't care what happens to you even if you die, she is ready to spoil things, she fights my grand mother every blessed day till extend no one even come and stop them when they started shouting at themselves again
She roped me with our neighbour and Planned to plant evidence in my room. I almost go to jail that year but I was just 17 year old then and this was what sent me out of my grandma house
At the end of the day my mum and her siblings sent everyone out the house and the house was locked. God is so good and kind she's now facing the consequence now cos she is useless now, walking around like a zombie. She don't care what would happen and maybe she would have realise her mistakes now.
I got a guy that's now in his 30s that happen to be a family with my guardian and the director of the company I'm working for. He too don't care what happens in presence or future. According to his story I heard, he suppose not be with us here in Nigeria but oversea and live a good life.
He through with his National diploma and they wish he have bsc instead of hnd so they bought him different school forms but he never pass any of it, he don't read, all he do is drinking alcohol and gambling, he never care about his future
Director has to sent him out of his house cos he cause him too much problems and he is still given chance to come to office despite the fact that he didn't have result to work but to get paid at the end of the months for himself but he don't come to work always and have been sanctioned so many times
His family contributed huge amount for him to pay his school fee but he used the money for gaming and give excuses
For him to use the salary he receives for good things, he prefer gambling and drinking alcohol, and begs for t-fare whenever he's going home.
They've talked to him many times, gave him many advises for him to change but he refused so I remember they talked to my uncle wife too and even begged her to let peace rain but she refused too despite she's is always guilty
These people make me realise people don't change no matter how hard you try to change them so better let them be
conclusion
Just don't try to waste your time talking or advise possessed people cos they won't just heed your words. Even if they realise their mistakes, it's in their blood, they can't change, they would still repeat the same thing you advice them not to. Send them out of your vicinity of you got their type cos they would make you live miserable life
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