Falling in love is a very nostalgic feeling. It is an intense emotion filled with so much bliss, no pain just mere joy. Even in your lone times, a glimpse of your memory foreseeable brings sweet smile. Falling in love is good, it gives you positive feeling of acceptance; a feeling of belonging. To love and beloved conveys extra ordinary feeling which creates a feeling of happiness and excitement as if you have woke up and found out you won the lottery each day.
Falling in love are sweet during the happy beginning and when it’s meant to last. What’s terrifying is the truth how opposite really attracts. Falling in love and heartbreak are two different things but sometimes would give you the idea that the world is definitely an oblate spheroid which means life turns in cycle. After falling in love, if the relationship won’t last, you break up and endless heartbreak begins. Love may come like a thief at night but heartbreak comes along and often caught you off guard.
However, if your strong enough and moved on, only then, you will chose to fall in love again. Life is not a bed of roses; life could sometimes turn into bed full of thorns. The only thing that remains constant is change and constant itself. Savor the moment but never get used to it. This is a safety reminder not from PAG-ASA but from a friendly reminder from yours truly. But seriously, expecting too much and attaching too much on a relationship that still has no assurance to prosper will break you in the end. Then again, expecting too much is unavoidable. Blame your hypothalamus for giving you false hope thou.
Now let’s say you are already there, your already in the sensation of so much longingness, disappointments and hatred. During this time, you realize that those things which made you cry will make you laugh while those moments of laughter and happiness will make you cry. Bear with it, opposite attracts. You were now in the moment bombarded of so much why, how and what if’s. It would feel like you are trap in a maze, no idea how to find the way out. According to Denis Waitley, “Don’t dwell on what went wrong.
Instead, focus on what to do next. Spend your energy moving forward together towards an answer”. Meaning, blaming yourself or putting everything at fault is useless, you have to start using your strength with productive things instead, in order to start healing yourself. Clinging too much on what’s done would make you feel so sick. It is like reading same page a hundreds of times and still decides to read it all over again. The thing you should do is start forgetting everything. Accordingly, forget what hurt you but never forget what it taught you. This is a very familiar quote we hear every time we talk about heartbreak. From the beginning, you have to embrace the pain but don’t live with it, left the heartbreak where you left it but bring the lesson with you.
It’s not yet the end of the world; he/she is not the only person in the world. We don’t live in the world where people are extinct; we live in the world over populated. There are big chances on finding the person to change marriage vows and I do with God’s will and perfect timing. “We keep moving forward, opening new doors, and doing new things, because were curious and curiosity keeps leading us down new paths.” Walt Disney. Instead of throwing the “what if” we never break up question or “what if” I did the other way around, start asking what if I try to move on?
Curiosity leads you to move forward, stimulating your mind with positive question of what if’s would helped you move on and soon enough you will get over from him without you noticing it’s never painful anymore. Your curiosity will lead you to a track; the moving forward route. You just enjoy feeding your curiosity. And then one day, after you cried for the sweet memories of laughter you shared together, you would find yourself laughing your ass out, sitting in a couch while reminiscing how you have wasted your tears for someone who doesn’t deserve you. Always remember that God made you because He loves you, patience is a true and one of the best virtue so don’t get tired of waiting. Remember, life goes on. God’s plans are always amazing, He will give what you deserve in perfect timing.
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