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It is generally known that the way you dress largely determines the way you are addressed but what is not common knowledge is the fact that the way you dress is actually a reflection of who you truly are.
Who you are determines the way you talk.
Who you are determines the way you behave and hence the way you present yourself which is reflected in your dressing.
For example a king is expected to dress, act and talk in a particular manner; in dressing he should be royal, in behaviour he should be dignified, in speech he should be bold and authoritative.
These qualities spell out who he is without him having to say it.
So here's my point!
One secret that will boost your confidence in life and give you the necessary zeal required to pursue your dreams to full actualization is a basic understanding of who you are.
An understanding of who you are will affect how you behave, how you talk, who you associate with and everything you do generally.
It will define your whole being and elevate your confidence.
To buttress my point let's take a look at the royal family once again; a prince for instance is raised with an understanding of who he is.
Right from childhood he is being served and respected by all. He is brought up to speak and behave in a dignified manner that spells out his identity.
His mind is moulded to believe that he is not just an "ordinary" but royal personality.
He is not allowed to mingle with just anybody but with those who are of the same caliber and class with him.
Because he knows who he is and what is expected of him, his thought, behaviour and his personality as a whole is shaped in a particular pattern.
So basically, what you will become, what you do, how you behave, dress and talk or even the people you associate with are greatly determine by a deep understanding of your identity and personality.
So ask yourself the following questions:
Who am I?
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Where am I going?
What do I want to become?
What path will lead me there?
If you answer these questions diligently and truthfully you will discover that your focus is restored and you now believe in yourself.
Your confidence must now have taken an upward leap
Your eyes have been opened.
You now know what you have to do to get to your destination in life.
You're now sure of the path to follow without anyone telling you.
Make a decision now to stick to the path and never to deviate from it.
If you ever get lost along the line, just come back and read this article.
Don't forget who you are.
I hope this helps someone.
Thank you so much for reading.
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