When we talk about love we get weird, I really think that's what happens to most humans because love is a little confusing and even more so if it's hard to understand.
Everyone here has ever had our first love our first illusion our first sin thanks to love but the serious question is: Have you suffered for love? And the serious answer to all of us is that we always suffer, before during and after the relationship the individual will always tend to suffer for love.
This is where we must act and ask ourselves why this is happening? simple, life is hard and will always treat us this way.
Another thing that always happens to us in love is that we get confused either because someone else arrives or because we no longer want to be with that person and we tend to get lost in a bottomless sea.