What was that girls?
How was the feeling of finding out that he knows your genuine love that you keep for the longest time?
Many of us disregard it. As a woman, we should be the one who is conservative. Even if we love a person, we prevent to say anything about our feelings when they are there. We don't want to look very aggressive because we are women! Duh. We don't have anything to explain or to elaborate about that. We are women, that's it!
But, some of us have the strength and will to say what they are really feel about a person or a guy. They never look to any consequences that may possibly happen.
One time, I have watched a video from a famous facebook page named Mr. Speaks. He gives advices about love and relationships. He mainly focused that in order to know if he or she loves you, you must take a step and action to determine if he/she has the same feelings as you. You can search him at Mr. Speaks on facebook if you want.
Girls, of course this is never a requirement. I had observe other people when a woman says her feelings to a guy, there are some reactions that may not be comfortable to us.
There three (3) kinds of men base on my perception when they knew your feelings:
- You feel like different or totally strangers.
Yes, they will never join you to eat, or talk to you for several days, or they don't really like you too in the first place. - He will court you until you say yes, but definitely not a serious relationship.
(sighs) I have known a guy who exactly like this. But of course I will not say his name. When he determine that a woman likes her, they will be friends for a while. After that, they had change already their facebook status as "IN A RELATIONSHIP" WITH.. following their names. Several months after, they are broke up. The guy I am talking had uncountable girlfriends. Definitely not a good credits for his resume. Just kidding! - He will talk to you the other day like nothing happens without planning to court you or to make an effort for you.
This the most embarrasing for me as a woman. He dont have any reaction about what you have said recently. While you, waiting on the other side, and seeking from him to loves you back. Very shameful.
Note:
First, this are some of the guys. I still believe that there still a gentleman for everyone of us. I dont say that there are perfect man. What I mean is there is always be man enough to say his true love for you, keep the faith.
Second, never ever beg for love. Learn to wait for the right time. I also believe on that.
And third, love yourself even more before loving someone else so much.
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