There are some people who have been gifted by God with great mental power and wisdom to make them behave in the most difficult things and people turn to them for advice about their lives. But to maintain your mental abilities and to become stronger in your mental abilities, Avoid doing these things.
* Thinking in the past:
The wise focus their thinking on the present moment and the near future They understand well that what happened in the past will remain in the past and can not be changed or controlled and the distant future lies in the knowledge of the unseen that no one knows so live every moment as the last moment in your life.
* Falling in love with the safety zone:
The safety zone is the most dangerous place on the mind. When you love sitting in this abyss for a long time, you lose a lot of your abilities. Being in the safety zone means that you give up to death while you are alive and to maintain your mental strength. Security zone.
* Not listening to the opinions of others:
The only fools are those who believe that their opinion is the only one that counts. When you sit with a lot of people to think about something you will see a lot of ideas but the good idea remains a good idea even if you are not the one to think about it and never refuse advice from anyone.
* Avoidance of change:
What the wise know well that the time of the situation of the shop whenever they tried to resist change is coming one day inevitably and therefore resistance to change in the eyes of the wise is a waste of time and effort. Change in general can strengthen your ability to maintain your mental strength.
* Keep closed The prospects:
Whatever you try you will not be able to know everything Even the things that you think you know well may not be true or completely true And if you kept yourself away from evolution You can not learn anything new Which means you will stop life.
* To let others decide for you:
You are the only one who must make decisions in your life and do not allow others to decide for you. This will move the responsibility for you to someone else. Ultimately, however, the results will be borne by you and not by the decision maker. You can succeed
* Hatred on the successful:
It is normal to feel jealous of the successful but this is a joy to push you to further progress, but to turn into hatred is unacceptable, success of others does not mean failure may be another opportunity for your success or lessons that benefit you in general will push you to more Progress.
* Think of the great potential for failure:
our thoughts turn into beliefs which in turn turn into actions and actions that lead to results. The wise know this rule well so they take their ideas as a force for them. There is always a chance to fail, but there is also a chance for success. Try to focus on it as much as possible.
* Life is difficult, there are a lot of obstacles:
people are hurt and people are dying. Life is not all roses and silk. You will fall again, again and again. You must have the courage and strength to continue your life and the feeling that you are a victim will never help.
* Focus on the weaknesses of the opponents:
Although the pressure on the weaknesses of others has a profitable outcome, but focus on your strengths has stronger results and more profitable. A person who knows his weaknesses and strength well is able to know what he wants? What should he do? It will not help you too much to know the weaknesses of others to defeat them, in the end you will remain weak as well.
* Trying to please others:
will not agree with you all the people must find those who oppose you and does not mean that your idea is bad, but the difference created in each person in us, as the ancients to satisfy people is not aware of and satisfy God is an end do not leave.
* Blame yourself for something beyond your control:
The wise know that things that fall outside their control, such as geebies, stop thinking about them and leave them entirely in the hands of the strongest. God is the master of things and the world of the unseen, yet they can think of these things to control their thoughts. Good faith in God always gives you psychological comfort.
* Not to be patient:
patience is not only virtue, but the key to the vagina as they say. People do not fall into failure because they are not good enough and not because they are not able to succeed, but because they have not been patient enough and surrendered early or even just before success.
* Trying to be incomprehensible:
Communication is the key to the functioning of the system correctly. When the communication system fails, things become complicated among people, and the information is not sufficiently important. The messages are not understood by people. This is what he knows very well. Patience to remove any misunderstanding.
* Feeling that everyone is indebted to your happiness:
You alone do not deserve all the happiness in the world I was born in this world and all the pursuit is located on your own alone and life is not a city for you. Similarly, others do not owe you anything, and if you want something in this world.
* Repeating mistakes:
The mistake is not the problem, the biggest problem is to repeat the mistake again in the same way without learning from the above, such as going back to the drug or smoking again and again, this indicates stupidity.
* Surrender to your fears:
The world may be a scary place. You may be afraid of some things for some reason but you will find that most of our fears are not logical. If you feel that you want to try something new, try what is the problem and if you feel afraid of it, know that the fear of failure and this kind of fear must challenge and achieve success on your own.
* Moving without logic:
To be wise and to maintain your mental strength must prepare a good kit for each movement by understanding the situation in which you are well.
* Refuse to help others:
You are not super man doing everything alone so you need to help others always as you should be social and listen to the ideas of others and learn from everything around you.
* Do everything you are asked to:
Your time is limited and this is what everyone knows but only the wise are managing their time well. Your time should contain the things that are important to you, but if it is not important for you, do not do it for your success.