Some people change because of some problems that they are facing in their everyday life. No wonder how long it takes to face the problems that are very personal and some are very hurting things.
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Only one thing in this world could let us bring our lives in different ways. It depends upon the circumstances that we are facing to and it depends upon you if you could give it a shot and if you could do it but, if you want to, you will have it even if it takes time.
Be strong and facing problems is not a problem.