I'm going to begin by expressing the self-evident: Parenting is difficult, damn hard.
As much as we would prefer not to let it be known or talk about it, in case somebody feel that we don't value being a parent or don't love our youngsters as much as we should, the basic truth is that child rearing is damn hard. Obviously, it is astonishing and magnificent and significant, however it is additionally actually screwing hard.
In any case, as we probably am aware, it's conceivable to adore something despite the fact that it's actually hard and sort of sucks here and there. It is conceivable to adore being a parent, dislike it constantly. Furthermore, it is conceivable to adore our kids, without cherishing (or notwithstanding preferring) each moment we go through with them.
These substances, however they may appear as though irregularities, are not amazing to me or such troublesome for me to accommodate. I'm entirely OK with the clashing feelings I once in a while feel about parenthood and my kids. What's more, I'm OK with child rearing being hard and sort of awful now and again, while in the meantime being satisfying and significant and magnificent.