I know a lot of women who do not want to have children. The problem is neither in health or having a partner, but in that they do not consider the presence of children to be happies and say that there has never been a maternal instinct.
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They are engaged in a career, live for fun and do not want to spend their money and energy on someone else, even if this person is their own child.
I do not blame such people, each of us builds his own life and chooses his own way.
Not understand such people in Russia, if you do not have children and you are married, then everyone asks why you do not give birth, when you have a child, do you have any problems? People find it difficult to accept such a choice, they consider such people to be selfish.
If there is no maternal instinct, if a woman does not want children, she can not be forced, because if she does not want to give birth to this child, there will probably be two unhappy people: mother and child who dont love her mom. This is very, very sad!
Often, such children give grandmothers, and moms continue to live as before.
Creating a family today, you need to talk about children in advance, even there are great feelings, but one of the spouses wants children, and the other does not, there will be no happiness. It is better not to create a family and not to force to have children. It is necessary to search for the person who shares your views.