Unforgiving spirit is a stealer of peace, and I believe that whatever robs us of our peace of mind should be done away with so to enable us enjoy the peace of mind we so desire.
Forgiveness is quite very easy because it's as a result of hurts, and it becomes more hurtful or painful when it's by someone we love and trust, and that often results in anger, sadness, depression and confusion; and it tends to become more hurtful If we dwell on those hurtful events or situations, because it will birth grudges filled with resentment and hostility which can take its root.
Importantly, allowing negative feelings to crowd out positive feelings, will only result in us being swallowed up by bitterness and bringing a sense of injustice, and that only brings sadness, robbing us of the peace of mind we so desire. But in all, there is a remedy, which is forgiveness; Forgiveness is a key that brings peace to one's mind, and for it to be possible, it's important that we ought to forgive ourselves, so as to extend the forgiveness to others. Forgiveness allows us to release those burdens, offering peace and liberation. Emotionally, forgiveness promotes healing and emotional well-being. It enables us to move past hurt and resentment, fostering empathy and understanding towards those who have wronged us. Forgiving ourselves and others are intrinsically linked, in that by reaching forgiveness, we are granting ourselves peace and harmony over the situation.
Our peace of mind is one important factor that shouldn't be yoked with, because when it's tempered with, it tends to affect every other area of our lives, some knowingly and others unknowingly, and it's also a factor that no matter the amount we have, we can't purchase it from anywhere, so whatever tend to temper with our peace should be avoided.
Although forgiveness doesn't mean forgetting or excusing the harm done to us. It also doesn't necessarily mean making up with the person who caused the harm. Forgiveness brings a kind of peace that allows you to focus on ourselves and progress from one phase of life to another.
Forgiveness is a process, though it doesn't erase the scar and its negative energy; but it can promote peace resulting in healing. It might be difficult, but it is quite easy when we understand that peace and forgiveness works hand in hand. Thus forgiveness is a choice.
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