Hello beautiful people. Well, You can still do anything you want with this message but that's not my business.
My point here is that:
You ought to train your daughters to understand that making money is not gender based (it's not for a particular gender) It's for everyone. Teach them how to work hard and make money. Teach them that they don't have to be entitled to a man's money for a living. If a rich and successful man comes along the way, it's still okay.
Teach your daughters how to weigh a good man aside his pocket. Money is good but it's not everything in a man. It is better to be with a man who has money no matter how little and still, he is selfless, loving and understanding than to be with a rich man where you will be crying in silence. Dear parents, I understand the general African believe that a man's beauty is his money. But a man's value and true worth is not by his money.
Remember what the bible said:- A good reputation is better than an expensive perfume. Teach your daughters to love a man because of love and not because of his monetary value. Teach her to love and work hard alongside a man who is visionary and goal driven instead of dumping him to go be with a man whose source of income is questionable. Finally, teach her to marry who she loves and who loves her and not just only, who is financially buoyant.
- Teach your daughters to follow your marital footsteps. That is if you are proud of your marital life.
Teach them that no marriage is perfect but they can join hands and build a perfect marriage. Let them not use social media marriages as a yardstick for theirs. Most couples on social media will only show you what you want to see. They will allow you see the sweet side, scrapping away the bitter side of their marriage. They will tell you that without money, marriage is useless. Social media will make you judge blindly and eliminate the good men seeking for your hands in marriage. It will also make you selective and your expectations in men will be very high and unattainable.
Teach your daughters to follow your marital footsteps if actually your marital records are good. And not using social media as a yardstick to examine their potential spouse. Be their marital role model.
The end.
