Hello beautiful people. Stop pressuring your daughters into rejecting the men they love so much and marrying the men they will just meet during the Christmas period they don't even know and have not built a relationship with.
I understand that everyone deserves a better and comfortable marriage but also remember that when if you push her to marry that rich man who maybe has a narcissist trait, when domestic violence sets in, you won't have a say in that same marriage because your mouth have been covered with money, hollandaise, gifts etc. You won't have any other thing to tell her other than just "endure it"
You really need to teach your daughters how to work hard and marry for love and not for money. If a rich and successful man comes by, it's an added advantage.
Stop looking looking for a financial messiah who will marry your daughters and bear the responsibilties which you were not capable of fulfilling for them and your family.
Most of your daughters have found their peace of mind in a man who is just comfortable, but your expectations is that they marry someone who is super-duper rich without even considering if he is toxic or his source of income.
You probably may have warned your daughters not to bring just any kind of man to your house. (maybe a man who doesn't ride in the latest Mercedes Benz)
Some of you have planned on arranging only rich husbands for your daughters thereby making them not to have other options. You control their movement and conversation, who calls them and who they call, you have stopped that poor Emeka from coming to your house to see your daughter.
Remember, no condition is permanent. Poor Emeka that is responsible, God fearing, kind, selfless and well trained may be rich tomorrow if he works hard. But how will you feel when you pushed your daughter away from Emeka who would have given her peace of mind to Chief Omego 1 who is beating and shutting you all up with money?
You see, table turns fatser. Tomorrow is pregnant.
Christmas is drawing closer and maybe you are currently advising your daughters to shine their eyes and prepare for "Ndi Abroad" if peradventure, the marriage works out, the man will Japa to Abroad, leaving your daughter here in Nigeria to be carrying the burden all alone. She will be left weeping in secrets and claiming happy outside while she's lacking emotional love/support and the warmth hands of a man. Which is as a result of your idea and intiative as her parents.
