There comes a time is everyone’s life where he lose control of what he does to side with stuffs, he is afraid to say no to. Some people have the ability to stay glued to something, while others do not have the nerve to be glued to things around him. In as much as we live around with each other in the world, we all have something that trigger us to get addicted to certain things in our lives.
Have you ever wondered why there is always this person in your life that you can never say no to, no matter how hard it gets for you in life when they present or ask you for a favour. These people are not always related to us by blood or anything yet they turn to always present things to you in a way that makes it difficult for you to resist all the time. You never see how they does it but they control every little inch in your brains.
Taking it on the side of relationships, you would bear with me that there is always one among the two who always seems to present ideas to the other. In as much as some do end up to have good fruits from the decisions that take, many do end up to go side ways each time they try to follow an idea the other partner brought on the floor. They could use their schemes to let you lose a lot with your earnings that you end up with nothing at all in hand.
On the side of families too, let me go with the nuclear type or what many no as the small family thus mother, father and children. You will see that there is always this sibling of yours who always have his/her way around you. All they have a serious agenda on the bill to take something from you. Most each time they end up by saying, you borrow them a certain amount of money to which they would give to you back in an hour or two, yet they end up not paying at all.
Life with these types of people around is always not as sweet as you plan for yourself. They keep turning you into a bait all the time for their actions. They keep you stuck at a point which makes it difficult to let them down. Well enough is enough and I am here to tell you to break that chain, man up and take a bold step to tell them no! no matter how hard it gets for you to alter it out. If you do not break the chain earlier enough they might end their future by thinking you and would be there always for them. Even if that is true, what future would they have when death invites you earlier than you thought you would.
I remain your humble servant
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