The fact that one person is always seen as the one that is supposed to make marriage work is something very annoying. If you want me to be good, then you need to be good too; don't let it look as if your partner must be perfect alone; also, make life easy for them.
A woman will have to be good because her husband is making it easy for her to be good, and a man will have to be good because the wife is a good person too. It is always disheartening to know that a man cleats on his wife and still tells her not to cheat on him, and it is very bad for a woman not to provide for her family and feels that it is just the work of her husband to provide for the family.
Marriage is supposed to be a partnership and not a sole business; it is supposed to be very sweet, but sometimes people regret why they got married in the first place.
Make your marriage sweet and something other people wish to have.