Greetings, good to have you visit my blog again. It's the weekend, I hope it's moving just fine at your end.
For a start, I prefer avoiding debts; it can lead to financial strain and puts one in a tricky position. It's even worse if you fail to pay back at the agreed time frame, then you'll realize that some people can be mean!. They'll go all out making demands and giving conditions that they, themselves cannot meet up to.
I think one of the reasons that can put one in a situation of accepting to trade sexual favors to pay a debt might be their inability to pay back the exact debt they owe. Like they're stuck, with no means of redeeming themselves. What a damn fracking situation to find oneself in., lol.
I'm of the belief that engaging in any sexual or physical activity should always be consensual and based on mutual respect. Therefore,
requesting that I use my body as collateral or in exchange for a debt is unacceptable and exploitative. It shows lack of respect for my person.
Again, even if my debtor has lost their moral compass and reasoning, leading them to make such unjust demands, I remain grounded in my integrity. Their request is unacceptable, unethical and dehumanizing, potentially causing lasting trauma. Notably, such demands are illegal in various countries and regions. I believe taking legal action against them could serve as a stark reminder to reevaluate their actions.
Thinking about this even makes me cringe, arrghh!. Seriously I don't want to imagine the aftermath of such act - the physical and psychological impact might be huge and devastating!. The feelings of guilt, shame, and regret may hang around me for years, even a lifetime. In fact I'd despise myself for betraying my values if I ever join this destructive dance orchestrated by my debtor.
But come to think of it, why would someone ask for my body in place of what I owe?. They didn't lend me their body, so why ask for mine? lol. If they so desire to lay with me then let them come straight, make their intentions known, and not to use the debt I owe as a means to achieve their aim. For me, this is mere cowardice.
Not only that, but I also strongly believe they have ulterior motives that may not serve my best interests. To safeguard myself from potential threats, I prioritize protecting my mental health, dignity and self-worth above all.
I understand that some people might want to take this option thinking that it's the best way out, but I tell you it's not at all. It's a slippery slope, In fact a death trap, and I won't fall for such a trap.
You know, they'd always say, "it's just once", and voila, you are discharged and acquitted, but I tell you, it's never gonna stop at once. They'd want more and more so there's definitely going to be a "second, third, and fourth one" and there's no telling where it will stop. Maybe till they're satisfied with causing emotional havoc and wrecking a life!. Some may even employ blackmail if you refuse to tag along after giving in the first time. So I'll not allow myself to be exploited and abused by any sex starved urchin. What I owe is a debt and not my body!
Thank you for reading!
This is for Weekend Engagement Topics Wk 229
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