I am an ordinary woman who was born into an ordinary family. Being in the lowest position in life is not easy, when you have nothing and are hated by many people. If you think back on the journey of my life, which was so bitter, of course, it will open again a long wound time ago. Where many people who hate and despise the because do not have any wealth to be proud of.
School time was a sad time I had to wear shoes that had been torn for years, which was also a lot of bullying against me.
But I'm not a crybaby girl, I've never cried with what my friends did to me. I understand that at that time my parents' economy was very difficult. Sometimes I feel sorry and sad to see it.
After I was mature, that's when I thought hard about how I could succeed next and shut the mouth of the bad guy.
In 2012 I was determined to leave the island, of wanting to wander and change my fate in the capital city of Indonesia, the metropolitan city of Jakarta which is famous for its Monas Monument.
At that time I worked in a clothes laundry, I did any kind of work because I was not highly educated.
Sometimes it makes me jealous of people who can continue their education and realize their dreams.
At that time, God was so good to me, there I married a man I had known for a not yet long time.
Of course, I did all this because of the love and blessing of my parents.
I don't know why I'm so sure of him. My husband works at a private university, he works as an administrative staff.
At the beginning of our marriage, we were still living an ordinary life, living in a small rented house.
A few months passed when I was pregnant with my first child.
At that time, God gave us more sustenance.
Finally, we were able to buy a motorbike as transportation.
Time passed quickly my economy got better, finally we were able to move to a larger lease. I can buy my parents tickets to go back and forth to visit me here.
The time came when I gave birth to a daughter who was really beautiful, her presence has made our lives more colorful and happy. I don't know why maybe my son is the bearer of sustenance. The sustenance is pouring in and my husband's job is getting better and better. Finally we were able to move to a rent that is more spacious and has 2 floors. At that time we were able to buy a motorbike again and pay for the house in Bogor, West Java. When my son was 3 years old I was pregnant with my 2nd child. At that time our economy was getting better and better, we were able to buy our first car. I'm really grateful that God has heard all my prayers, and gave us a much better life than before. My husband is a person who is a little generous and not stingy, he likes to give charity and help people who can't afford it.
All of that we do, because we know how it feels when we have nothing.
Besides, I also can't bear to see them living hard there.
I want to see them enjoying their old age happily.
I didn't allow them to work as usual.
Life surprised me again, we were able to buy a 2nd car. I am endlessly grateful because God really has changed my life. My husband is like an angel in my life, since the success he has achieved I can respect my parents and be more respected by people. I can silence the mouths of people who used to be so mean to me. Can having more wealth make people appreciate us more? I think that's true, but still I've never been the slightest bit arrogant with anyone. I am still kind to those who have hurt me.
I believe that success can be achieved with effort and prayer, never give up under any circumstances. Because life goes on and we must rise from adversity. This is the time you have to prove that you can be successful, no effort is wasted and keep what you have today. The wheel of life continues to spin, not forever people will always be at the lowest point and vice versa.
Thank you for reading my first post, sorry if there are a lot of wrong words in this post. Goodbye and good luck.
Who is Dwi Purwandari?
Dwi Purwandari is an ordinary housewife, she doesn't have many activities at home so she is bored. Recently, he started to learn to write, because according to her, writing is a way for her to relieve stress, can improve his mood and can express her feelings as he wants by writing. She has a dream that one day he can become a successful person by writing. Be proud of you because you can write,because not everyone is able to become a writer.