These dates stir and bring out what we do not want to understand, or at least avoid. The longing appears and arrives just like last year, unpleasant emotions such as anxiety, uncertainty, sadness, loneliness, maybe we miss someone, and it's okay to feel that way, it is normal and not everyone can feel happy on these holidays, the thing is to silence the mind (prayer, meditation, prayer, contact with nature) to connect with your emotions and fear.

Well, that is the capacity that memories have, those stories loaded with (excess of past) to not let us live anything new. Fortunately, magic lives in the heart of each one of us, who are 100% responsible for activating it in the dynamics of our daily life.

What can we do?

Surround ourselves with people who love us, live in the present, make that call (video) with our affections, and focus on what we do have and not on what we lack, besides being grateful even for the air we breathe. Maybe we are remembering things we have not achieved this year, which is saying goodbye to questions we ask ourselves like: What did I miss doing? What should I have done? With a lot of mental noise, which produces a kind of mourning for the end of this cycle ... by God!!!!, today we are on December 29.

And at this point, my brain is consciously or unconsciously reminding me that I must see from my perspective that I did achieve all that I had proposed and that I give myself permission to feel and process not having achieved all my goals

This is the time to decide, I decided by myself

It cost me a lot to do so, but I am getting the results I deserve. When I started to look in the mirror the woman God wants to see smiling all the time, I understood that I am not what others said, that I am not the labels I let myself put on. Recognizing this was the shock therapy that made me wake up to the reality I deserve. And, a detail, to discover a year full of possibilities is to recognize that when you love yourself so much, the partner that completes you, comes as a reward and complement to your self-love, not to save you or solve your life.

When I see in my image, the image of my other SELF, I know that I am evolving, I am bettering myself, and that soon I will help others with my experience, and it is one more option to continue cultivating my self-esteem.

I love Socializing with people

I love the protocol of the end of the year, the ritual of the ribbon, the toast, the grapes, the opening of cycles of prosperity, giving thanks with the trust and the accompaniment of my united and solid family that has been formed over time. They are my reflection, my example of what I transmit and inspire from the love that is everywhere. The solidarity of my best friends also in many ways sustains me and gives me strength during these holidays... I value that immensely.

So far this month of December I am practicing detachment, and I am taking out everything that I no longer use, which will be useful to others (will be their new treasure). I have delivered it to two foundations where I do social work as a volunteer a few years ago.

And if even after these tips, sadness, and uncertainty come to me, I will not feel guilty, this is more normal than we think, I will apply all this, I feel that the hardest thing for me is to say NO, but I go ahead because no relationship grows without limits. So I will say NO to what does not contribute to my personal growth.

"I will seek help quickly when I feel that I cannot be alone in some situation, I will trust that there are skilled, very professional, and willing people who are willing to guide me on the way to discovering my own tools."

And I conclude this post as always "enjoying the present, the only gift, the only truth, what I have as possible to take advantage of".