Building bridges, not walls
I longed so much to close the decrees of 2022 that I now have butterflies in my belly (good kilos too hahaha) about this blank notebook that I have to follow life this year 2023 that I can almost taste, smell, and touch.
My main purpose: is to see the souls and not the bodies, which are nothing more than learning vehicles on this plane. And to this Wonderful purpose and as many extraordinary things come into my life to achieve to discover in each soul that returns to me to give, show or repair that the gift touches me too.
To achieve, see/feel the spark of the Holy Spirit, and really connect with souls that nurture me and allow my evolution.
To this purpose, I add faith, an effective tool to sustain my family. In years so hard for families in the world because of viruses, wars, lack of love, and violence. I give thanks for being able to embrace each other, physically and spiritually.
As much as possible, I play the role of conciliator for those families where disputes reign, preaching with the example of union, understanding, and evolution of human beings.
And how is this achieved?
By creating bridges and not walls. For me in this holiday season, giving is especially important when I think I can't when I am going through difficult times... or when I feel an emptiness inside me in that secret place where my "Inner Self" who knows me very well, acts as a bridge to discover that if I can give something, I give it and when I do, I win.
Many times I ask myself if it is really feasible to start from scratch, so many times I hit rock bottom in life?. And what is it like to start from scratch when I have daughters, a husband, and a family? It is to talk, to relive or bring up the happy or sad learning and see it with the eyes of adulthood/maturity is very, very proactive to start from scratch with family, this way it makes me less selfish, since I start from the desire of the common good, although many times I'm wrong.
Happiness must be contagious
It is my particular perception, but sometimes I also attract what I have to help heal in me. I have tried to let go of my drama, to be an ambulance, a redeemer or... as I was once told: you are a photo store: everyone comes to you, just to develop their film, problems (the centennials will not understand this) Yes, sometimes I "feel" it causes me some sadness that many call me or seek me to ask for favors. But I also know that they come to me looking for what I can spare generosity, frankness, and prudence, and as much as possible I try to help... in the same way when I have asked for help, I have gotten it... reciprocity, they say.
These days I have been meeting with friends to talk about how to plan together guidelines for self-improvement, it is always enriching because this way they make you see the real essence of life. Self-improvement starts every day when I open my eyes, and it's wonderful.
We are always in a hurry and even though we know that changes are for the better, we can't give up sugar, beer, caffeine, and flour (because of gluten), start jogging and change jobs and simultaneously break up with our partner.
Why are we like this? Because social and personal habits have their usual encounters and misunderstandings. The good thing about this kind of conversation between friends is that there is always someone in your environment that supports you and feeds your emotions in these transitions.
It is a real daily metamorphosis with the fortune of the present, to enjoy while you can and find the opportunity. Today I enjoy having this perfect circuit of love and trust with this group of friends together we are strength to creation, to expression... putting impetus and desire. I don't know what will happen tomorrow, so I conclude this post with this saying: little by little you go far away. Maybe I will not arrive "immediately" at my destination, but I will surely get there.
The work of citizen reconstruction depends on each one of us who understands that loving our homeland, our country, and our people is a commitment that is renewed every day.
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