We live in a world that's usually centered around competition and individual success, which I believe are good and helpful to inspire growth for everyone; however, when it comes to me personally, I tend to see myself and live my life with an ultimate goal centered around happiness, family, and kindness. This, I believe, is a result of my life experience through the years; that's to say, the life code I live by isn't just centered around me, but on those around me as well, having shared feelings of joy and satisfaction.
So with that being said, I'll say the things I live my life by are happiness, kindness, and mindfulness. I've come to learn that despite the fact that we want to promote equality amongst all, it's worth noting that at the moment such isn't a reality, and one way to bring that to reality is by helping those around you and making sure they get valuable help in any form from you, be it words of advice, connection to a destiny helper, or financial support. Each action we take can either make or meer a life, and for me, it's better if I impact life positively.
So to start with, like I said, the first on my list of things I live my life by is happiness, and that's a very essential part of human existence. An unhappy person won't be in the right frame of mind to do what's necessary for the betterment of their life and that of those around them, and that's why I tend to live my life daily, trying to attract any happiness I can get, from simple interaction with others or from within, and I've come to learn that I'm at my best when and relate to others well when I'm happy.
Since that's the case, I've come to make it a point of duty and ritual to always stay happy, because my unhappy state will have negative influence on those around me, and that's not what I like. On the second note, like I said, I'm a family-oriented person, so one of my codes of living is to treat my family to the best of my capability, making sure they're happy, have all they need, and as well sacrifice for the greater good of my family, since they're the foundation of my life, and in the end I'm creating an environment that's centered around love and connections, and going on to create pleasant memories and a legacy of care and concern.
Also, like I said, kindness is another code I live by, and it's worth noting that living a life of generosity isn't all about financial support only, although financial aid is part of it, but offering our time to stick by others during happy and tough times can be seen as an act of generosity too. The same is the case when we offer our knowledge to help in anyway possible, and lastly, we should offer words of encouragement. It's no longer news that words are power and that words also have power to change a situation, heal, or break an individual; let your word impact lives positively; only then will we'll all enjoy harmony living, and that's why it's my code.
I'm conclusion I'll like to include mindfulness in relationships, since it's encompasses in my interactions with others. I'm the type who, although I joke a lot, many who know me know I only indulge in such to cheer people up and put a smile on their faces, and that's why in my little way I try to live in harmony with those around me, not wanting to hurt anyone's, but to live a considerate life that's driven by my reflection and empathy, and these are possible with me offering listening ears, understanding, and respecting people's opinions, and this brings about trust and mutual respect.
So that's about it on the codes I live my life by on a daily basis, and it's worth making life more pleasant for me and those around me, and it's worth noting, like I said earlier, that it's inspired by my life experiences through the year; it didn't just start one day, but via a day-to-day life lesson, starting from what I learned from my parents to my society and personal experience.
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