This topic is really demanding because it's a reality and an emotional matter to deal with, no matter how old I may be, realizing that my parents are not my biological parents can be draining but at the same I think it's a very good thing to know because it shows true love and respect.
These problems have been happening around our neighborhood and are always very disturbing especially when the child personally finds out that their parents are not the real parent.
Personally although it's very emotional to handle but then I would be very grateful to them because it's not easy to take raised a child that's not your blood, in fact this is why majority of men don't want to marry single mothers, because you know you didn't contribute anything that concerns how the child came to life.
Before making any decision or taking action I will ask to know why I was adopted by them.
Questions like, why was I adopted
What was the motives behind it
What happened to my biological parents.
However there are many factors that will determine my actions, imagine being in a home where I'm loved without discrimination, I as the adopted child is given equal opportunities as their real children, I would just know that I am favored and without much thought I will just openly accept that I was adopted, this will give me a sense relieve because if I continue to think, I might come up with an Idea that's not really cool.
After all that, the next thing I will do is know if my parents are still alive or there died, not because I want to go back to live with them but so I can learn and know more about myself, there are informations each and every one us don't know which only our true biological parents can provide, so I will make sure I know everything I need to know to be on the safe side.
It's clear that people adopt children for different reasons, let's not get things twisted what if my parents didn't have a child when there were in need of one, then it occurred that the only way they
could get one is through adoption, adoption is not really a bad thing as the blacks has painted it, if I was adopted as to be their child it wouldn't even be in their mind to tell me I was adopted, because I had automatically become their belonging, therefore I have an heritage in their home.
But what we should be considering should be the reason they would decide to let me know that I was adopted.
The answer to this question will determine their next move towards me as the adopted child.
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