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Today's prompt is a very relatable prompt which talks about a very important discussion: "Parenting",
I know many would be wondering why I summarised the days prompt based on Parents. Many people we see this days behaving a certain way or another was widely influenced by something or someone. Although there are a lot of influential factors we must consider like:
The first factor to consider whenever people acts and behave a certain way is
- physical factors -
What we meant by the physical factor are natural elements that influence human behavior: Example is when you age, you can behave a certain way, another example is the state of your health, another example is when you have illness,another example of a physical factor is Pain: whenever a person suffer pain of any type, the last example is when a person is using Drugs: the influence of a substance or medication.
The second factor that can affect a person behaviour is the Personal and Emotional factor, this are the type of behaviour the emanates from the person's subconscious and Conscious mind.
- personal and emotional factors -
This includes personality of the person,the beliefs, expectations, emotions, finally mental health.
The Last and the Most important factor is Life experience( This is a factor that have a life long effect on the behaviour of the person)
- life experiences -
The first on the list is family,
The family is the most important here because all what you will learn immediately you were given birth to, your parents have the collective responsibility for giving you the best morals, love, discipline, value lessons and guide and direct your way on making important life decisions like what religion to follow, friends to follow, how to act and behave to people. A good parenting will definitely bring the best out of your children. This is why the Bible says that Parents should train their should train their children in the way they should go and when they grow up they will not depart from it,
Another Life experience factor is culture: culture are the ideas, customs, and social behaviour of a particular people or society.
Another Life Experience are your friends as an individual can go a long way to influence you, there is a popular saying that show me your friends and I will would show you who you are speaks volumes about how friends can deeply influence any person of different ages.
Here I am driving to a particular point,
As parents you have the Control over your child, this includes the friends they have, the type of religion the follow, the school they go.
The parents can be a full time role model for their kids, which in turn make them live a good life.
Any parents whose child is behaving in a bad manner in the society should be hold responsible for bad parenting.
Although there might be some of other factors that can make a child behave badly but the parent have 70% power to stop such from happening perhaps if there was good communication between the children and parents.
This is my take on the HL prompt of Who is to blame
I hope you enjoyed reading and have a great day 😘
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