Accepting is not easy, especially when you have a guilty feeling. On the other hand, denying is the easiest. But did you ever think how much lies you have to come up with to deny anything? And the worst part is you have to find someone else or thing for your own wrong action. Someone else who may not have any guilt faces the misery for our own. Is not it unethical?
Accepting makes us embarrassed. But if we learn to fight with the embarrassment of people, from society it will be easy for us to accept things. But the truth is the society, our family teaches us to deny and pretend. You have done something wrong, accept it, you are facing some problem accept it.
Come up with your own logic for accepting the thing.
Look forward to making it right again or roll-on in your own way positively.
Promise yourself to not do the mistake again.
Don't waste your time thinking about how to deny things.
Make yourself strong to fight the bully.
You know what, sometimes we need to feel the shame to move on. It's also necessary for life. Our mistakes make us strong for the future fight. Accept it and find the best way to fight it. Face the shame but never stop. Move on. If you can accept who you are, what have you done wrong, there's no one who can break you, make you feel bad.
Try this way to bring positivity in life. I hope you will be the winner in this life battle!