Greetings. People often write to me asking for my advice for some situation they are going through in their life, usually about their relationship. I am not a therapist or anything like that, however I try to give the best advice I can. Lately my family and I have been going through a pretty tough time financially and my mind is completely focused on our work, which causes me some stress. I recently had two people write to me who are in a different country than mine with better economic characteristics, but they have problems in their respective relationships. I do not know if there is someone who is completely happy, who has a balanced professional and personal life in complete balance, but I have noticed that most of the time when someone is economically stable they have problems with their partner and if they are well with their partner and family it gets complicated in the work environment. The thing is that because of my mental fatigue, I did not want to give my opinion or help these people who asked for my advice and I was first accused (by a third party) of not having empathy, then I was called to reflection with the following words: "you do not know if tomorrow you are the one who needs help and those people are the ones who are there for you".
The truth is that I agreed in a good way to offer my support through my words,because beyond what these people can do for me in the future, people who lack empathy are usually selfish and that is not what I am, nor what I want to teach my little girl, so I practice empathy, I help those who ask me to help them and I teach values to my daughter.
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