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Thich Nhat Hanh
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After a few days of not writing, I felt empty, empty, like I had lost my identity, so let me share it here again, hheheh
One day, his statuses appeared on the Facebook home page. About him who works until late at night, his children who are difficult to deal with, the house which is always a mess, and the small events which make a heavy impact on his life every day.
Where is her husband?
After reading the statuses, this question will arise. Can't her husband share the role? Does her husband run away from responsibility, why does he like to complain so much, etc.
However, it is possible that the information shared on the timeline is just an attempt to gain attention. Collect positive images to support feelings that need to be acknowledged. It could be that he doesn't get the need to be acknowledged at home. Don't most people consider the need for recognition to be excessive? In fact, for someone it could be a pill of happiness that can make them sane even though their daily activities are so heavy. You can get the happiness pill from family members, especially your partner.
"Confession from a partner will make someone feel full, and there is no need to complain about it on social media. Meanwhile, someone who is still not finished with it all, will continue to use their virtual network to attract attention and recognition."
However, in fact it is not easy for someone to acknowledge their partner's role when they themselves need recognition. It is possible that this couple's burdens are both heavy, so it is difficult to be able to admit that each other's roles are equally important. They are too focused on their own burdens, so they are unable to empathize with other people, even their partners.
"You really enjoy working outside, you don't feel the headache of dealing with children who are always fighting."
"Alas, the job of taking care of the house and children is trivial. You don't know how hard it is to deal with clients who want a lot and a boss who is super fierce, really."
Such conversations are then spoken like thorns sprinkled on the bed. Both must be in pain. In fact, by realizing the importance of giving recognition to your partner, this pain can be avoided.
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Try to reconsider not going to bed early after coming home from work. Having a pillow talk can be a good idea to share your worries at the office and understand the tiredness of taking care of the house. That way, the virtual world doesn't need to know that in your house there is someone screaming to be recognized...
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