Parents is the best actress in the world
Hi everyone, how’s your day? Have you ever wonder, what’s your parents feeling? Or what are they thinking right now. Not all parents are open enough to tell their children about their problems. They don’t want to trouble their children even they can help them. They are the best actress, they hide their true feeling and keep happy in front of us. Have your parents ever beat you? Sometimes with broom, or stick and even belt when we are naughty or disobedient. Modern parenting are now different. We have to stop physical abuse to our child. They prefer a discussion and open minded for both. This is good, but sometimes we can’t hold our anger and out of control about our rage and wreak it to our children that weaker than us. In modern parenting you need to control your emotion. Your children now nothing about your problems. If they ever make mistakes, remember that they are still learning about it, you also did that to your parents back then. If you encounter with child making mistakes first you need to take a deep breath and keep a cold mind. Then gently ask them about that. It may sound hard but if they used to it, you can find it easy. I know I ever out of control and getting angry at my son, because he put sand on the bathtub, he got scare and cry and I don’t care about how him. After that, I see him hiding in the cupboard and crying. I can’t stand that and calling him by his name but he just peeking from inside. I said that I’m no longer angry at him and offer him a hug, then he brave him self to hug me and crying out loud said that I was scary. I’m asking for forgiveness and he give that easily. He forgive me many times. Child have a pure heart, they still loving you even you hate them. If you ever felt that life is so hard. Remember that you need to be grateful that you can breath free, you can be grateful of anything. Be positive mind. I hope that your day is good. If you want to pray to God, never pray to remove the problems, but ask Him to guide you through your problems. Good night everyone. Here is some roses that blooms in my garden.
