In today's world, people think it is an achievement to have a huge list of thousands of friends on social media platforms, as it is considered to be cool. But, have you ever sat down and wondered, are all those your real friends? Do you even talk to all of them? I know the answer will undoubtedly be no.. because in today's busy world no one has the time to enjoy with their family let alone be that huge friend-list. Having a large group of friends is not bad, it is good that you have someone to listen and share your feelings always. But, do you really share your feelings with everyone, no.. you do not. Then what is the need to build a group of people? It is better to have a small group of friends, who genuinely care for each other. Have a group of friends who are there for you.. no matter what.
It is rightly said, that with true friendship the distance never matters.
If your friendship is real and genuine you can be for each other even when you are not physically at the same place. That is the power of true friendship.
- No one has 5786 friends actually. Let's get real no one has the number of friends they show on the social media. The virtual and real life is completely different.
- Quality is always better than quantity. It is always good to have few real and genuine people who care about you than getting surrounded by people who do not even gel with you. Quality is definitely what matters.
- The people whom you keep in touch with are the ones who matter. You always like to spend time with the people who actually matter, so what is the use to have a huge group. Every person has the special 5 or special 10 people who matter the most in their lives. Who are your special 5? Realize this and give them the love they deserve.
- Have real friends. and not acquaintances If you have a large group, chances are high that you will know a lot of people but have a few close friends. Let us not waste time in doing so and have a group of people we fall back on.
Having a large group of friends is just so over rated, I would rather like to spend my time with 2 of my closest friends.
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