You want to be that perfect wife and mother? The tips below will go a long way.
1)Respect, love and trust your man: your husband is your head. Opinions differ, but learn how to trust your man more than that pastor in your church.
Respect him to the extent you'd do something bad if he tells you to(am just stressing the height of your required commitment to him). Praise him. Crown him king! Let the world see you bask in the glory of your man.
2)Never disagree or correct him in front of the kids or outsiders.
To the children, Dad's always right. You make sure to propagate this belief in them by influencing them to obey Dad. Make the rules together with Dad but he's the one who should relate it to the kids.
3)Submit: Believe in your husband even when you see no light at the end of the tunnel. You believe in the God you physically can't see. Then, why won't you believe in the God you can see (your husband).
That man is the light that illuminates your path. If you go before him. You'll bruise your feet.
4)Daddy is the financial foreseer: He pays the school fees, rents and bills. Am not advocating a life of passiveness for our women. But if the woman finds herself in the position of being in control of finances. Let her be wise and transfer her money to her husband so he could be the one dishing it out.
5)Take your place beside your man: Don't rush to save baby when being punished by Dad. Don't sneak food to baby if Dad says he ain't eating tonight. Children would always detect that weak point which is undoubtedly provided them by the mother. They'll destroy the bond between you and your man if you can't keep your emotions in check. This will make the kids believe Dad is harsh while mum is good.You don't love those kids more than Dad. He's got reasons for being mean at times. Prove an immovable force front with him. Let the kids know you ain't helping them out if they disobey Dad.
6)Feed him: Trying to find out how best to cook chicken for him isn't joblessness. It's fulfillment of purpose!
The person who said "a woman's education ends in kitchen" isn't utterly wrong. He just lacked correct usage of English. I don't care how great you are. Go to catering school for him if need be.
7)He's the perfect spouse: When women gather to gossip. Tell them your man is different.
That he buys you 'hi-target' when you're obviously tying 'Aba made.' Tell them in your next life you'd still marry him.
Originally from @eliasjay
God bless you all!!