"We usually fight against money," admits Sarah, * in Ghana, 17, married to Jacob. He explains: "I feel angry because I work hard for family care and Jacob never talks about his finances. We have not talked to each other for weeks."
"Yes, says Jacob, there are times when both of us say angry things. Sometimes caused by a lack of meaningful communication, misunderstandings. The conflicts also arise because of our excessive reaction to situations. "
Nathan, recently married in India, described what happened one day when his father screamed at her nephew. "She was offended," he said, "and left the house. When I asked him why she was crying like this, he felt that he, his son, insulted him. The next thing I remember was screaming at us all. "
You may also have seen how lousy weather or naughty words can cause a lot of conflict at home. What can begin with a peaceful exchange of thought can quickly turn into a verbal dispute. No one can say precisely the right thing all the time, so it can easily misunderstand what others mean or misunderstand their motives. Still, it is possible to enjoy absolute peace and harmony.
What can you do when the triggered arguments start? How can families maintain peace in the household? Read on. What steps can you take to restore order in the family?