We have right to the way we see things and how we want to live our lives. But I have learnt that the purpose of God for our lives is to do his work. There are several ways by which we can do his work,people has several excuses for not wanting to do his will.
In John 14 vs 12, Jesus told us that we will do greater works than what He did, if He doesn't want us to work for his purpose, He wont tell us we will do greater works.
In 2 corinthians 5 vs 15, the bible told us that we should not live for ourselves but for him that died for us.
Even in Luke 12 vs 13-21,the bible talked about our riches should be towards God.
Our life is purposely for God and we should not leave his work undone.
Remember unto whom much is given, much is required. God has given us too much for us to let his work die in our hand. The interesting thing is if we choose not to his purpose, He will raise others to do It,it's a rare privilege to do the father's purpose,He always has options.