The problem usually lies not in the "condemned", but in the "judge" himself, because he "thinks" himself, for which he can be blamed.
- Inconsistency of expectation-reality😏
You do not meet my expectations, so I have the right to judge you in stupidity, weak character, ignorance, and so on. - Going beyond the usual morality☝🏻
When a person observes other people's actions, which do not correspond to his ideas about morality, he involuntarily begins to condemn. For someone, the reason for conviction can be smoking or using obscene language, while others do not see anything terrible in theft or assault.
The more strict was the upbringing in childhood, the higher the likelihood that a person, having grown up, will begin to condemn others even on trifles. But not always this upbringing brings the right result. As a result, a snob grows up, who considers those around him to be lower than himself and, at every opportunity, tries to remind them about it. - Trying to raise yourself up.
Fears and hidden complexes can cause the desire to condemn others. For where there is condemnation, there is an exaltation of oneself. Many live by this principle - they humiliate others to emphasize their own advantages. It does not matter that these advantages are rather doubtful, the main thing is for a person to feel that he is better than others in at least something - Personal hostility.
You can condemn someone, no matter what a person does. If he himself is unpleasant, then almost all of his actions will be discussed. And even attempts to establish relations will be perceived as insincere. They are looking for a dirty trick, despite the fact that a man behaves honestly and openly.
Virtually all causes of condemnation of strangers are related to the condemnator himself.
Do you agree? 😊
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