A major component of our human maturation process is the understanding that every human form has certain inherent characteristics that include both the masculine (or paternal) and the feminine (or maternal)...
It is the balance between these two opposite poles that is our natural state. One is not in opposition to the other, they complement each other, but only when equilibrium is realized...
In our immature emotional-based insecurity, perpetuated by our culture and social environment, one competes against the other. In a mature human state, being authentic to your true self, you let go of the conditioning of this paradigm and allow the source to regulate any imbalances. This too is a process, not unlike a small child who is learning to take his first steps. However the learning process is not a ‘something’ you do, it is it something you allow, and in uncovering your authentic self through persistent internal reflection you will find that the balance is obtained and realized quite naturally without effort...