No face, no matter how beautiful or well balanced the features, can be charismatic or auspicious if it does not reflect the vibrant personality within. Charisma is not about having perfect features, a fine complexion or a good figure. It is not the packaging that creates charisma, but the projection of the personality. If your personality radiates positively then your aura will give you a presence in any room that will attract people to you.
Developing Charisma
To bring out your powerful personal charisma, start by creating brightness and lightness within yourself. You must think powerful to become powerful, and love the uniqueness of your own appearance to be beautiful. Perhaps most important of all, believe that your whole personality has a resounding vibrancy that gives you a presence.
The face is the mirror of the mind, and eyes without speaking confess the secrets of the heart. Never give up, and be confident in what you do.
This be life in yourself does not come overnight, but is built up over time. The sooner you make a start, the sooner your inner charisma will begin shining through. Often the inner vibrancy you are seeking to develop is enhanced by the belief that you look good. In this way there is a simultaneous boost to the radiance of your inner self and outer self. Taking care of your appearance encourages a sense of wellbeing from which charisma can grow.
Begin creating an auspicious face by always looking your best
Paying attention to your physical wellbeing and personal grooming is an ideal way to start creating your auspicious face.
Every great work makes the human face more admirable and richer, and that is its whole secret.
~Albert Camus
The very act of making an extra effort with your physical appearance, perhaps using make-up to give you a healthy glow, will give your confidence the kind of boost that jump-starts personal charisma.
Five Important Features of Your Face
In Chinese culture, your face is said to be a mirror to your soul. It often shows a lot more that you want to reveal about yourself, which is why mask have such an important place in Chinese tradition. Indeed, in old China, officials at court learnt early on to hide their feelings, their moods, and their attitudes. They consciously worked on not allowing what was in their hearts and souls to show on their faces. Many of the secrets of the "hidden face" are now lost, although references to them continue to color the metaphors of local dialects of the Chinese language.
Our human face happens to be one of the most powerful channels that we all use to communicate social and emotional states: everything from enjoyment, surprise, empathy, and curiosity.
~Rana el Kaliouby
Mystery Creates Charisma
Today, we use cosmetics to define our features, drawing attention to our eyes and mouths. We use foundation cream to make skin look as flawless as possible, evening out our complexions. Making up our faces in the modern equivalent of creating a mask, although the effects are more subtle.
Let your face look groomed and beautiful. If you chose to use cosmetics to improve your appearance, you can look on make-up as a mask that conceals your inner self, or as a way to emphasize the best in you. For example, a colorful shade of lipstick enhances the positive effect of a smiling or a laughing mouth.
The human face is the organic seat of beauty. It is the register of value in development, a record of Experience, whose legitimate office is to perfect the life, a legible language to those who will study it, of the majestic mistress, the soul.
~Eliza Farnham
Remember that you are in control of the persona you are creating. Make-up is the first step towards projecting your personality while not revealing everything about yourself. Mystery is a vital ingredient of charisma.
What Gives Your Appearance Personality?
The forehead, cheeks, eyes, nose and mouth are the five most important defining features that give flesh and substance to your overall appearance.
Know Your Own Face
Just as it is important to develop an awareness of the rooms in your home, it is beneficial to know your own face well.
This is not as easy as It sounds other people see your different expressions but you only see yourself reflected in a mirror. However, make the effort to discover the color that suit you and how to enhance your features.