One thing with life is that no human being is (💯)hundred percent perfect especially when we have attained the age of maturity because situations and circumstances can make us change from time to time. Unlike when we are just growing up, not knowing what life holds for us with the big dreams we carry in our mind.
So with circumstances, situations and environmental influences, we are bound to change as adults and as people due to how change will force our dreams, goals and objectives to change. And as this things are changing, it start to affect our behaviors and who we are . This is one big determinant factor that make people to live with different opinions about others.
I dreamt all my youth becoming an Air Hostess who will travel all around the world 🌎, but it never happen because situations will force you to accept change. So I have to go with what life has offered me. And this is what so many people are also dealing with because change will continue to happen.
Perception is a word that carries so much weight because it deals with how we see things which leads to different opinions of people around us. On perception of my kind of person and how others see me lies in the hands of the people that surrounds me who are not family, loved ones and close friends who knows me well , but those who don’t know me well. The way my husband will describe me is not the way a a work colleague will see me.
I am a very strong, simple and straightforward person if am to describe myself. I like to be jovial with people around me and put in my best In attitude to also be friendly with people, but this does not mean I like to keep to many close friends. In fact, I cant keep more than two close friends at a given period of time because it has helped me to avoid trouble and gossip. But I love crowd when it comes to socializing. Few friends gives you peace of mind.
You know the nature we ladies has. Some will jealous you, others will envy you all for nothing, but this has not stopped me from being who I want to be despite people having different opinion about me. Issues are different understanding, environmental influence and circumstances of how we have encountered each other. Everyone has the way they reason and see things, but that does not change the person I am because no human is 💯 perfect.
Another thing about myself is that I don’t like people stepping on my toes. Since I love to live a simple life and stay straightforward, I like to call a spade , spade. Cutting conners when there is a straight route to something is not my gem 💎 because it definitely will bring insult with time. So I like to say this is white when it is white and black when it is black . And this what most humans don’t like. This already makes you a bad person in the heart of many. Regardless, it does not stop me from being among people, caring, supporting and doing the best that is in my power.
Coming to perception of those who know me, they will tell you how simple I live my life. No grudges, no envy, no jealousy since I see things like this as when one is not satisfied with the way God created them. So what is the envy about? You work towards what you don’t have and achieve it one day. Or you make do with what you have. Period.
My children will always tell me that they have never seen someone like me when it comes to free hearted nature. Life is already full of stress, so why adding more stress to the necessary ones that are not avoidable? But people are not the same anyway. Many of us has the time and energy to go about trying to snoop into other peoples lives. Its a whole lots when it comes to lifestyle.
I can tell you then that the way I see myself is the way people close to me see me because they are the ones that truly knows me. Family, close friends and loved ones are the immediate people that can tell who a person is because they have been around you for years. An outsider or stranger can not you in and out because he or she sees you differently.
Most importantly, my family, friends and loved 🥰 ones knows how I love to carry people along especially when it comes enjoying life. Visiting the pack, going to the beach 🏖, wedding ceremonies and others. I love outdoors because they bring me more joy as an opportunity to share moments with family, friends and those I love ❤️.
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