My husband loves
So I had my child at 6month during that period my BP was high and I was staying at the hospital, guess what I was to be operated upon because I was in labour for days and I couldn't bring forth so I was suggested for a Caesarean section and when the preparation came they brought blood but when the blood was brought they noticed it wasn't my match so on their way to change the blood I push out the baby right in that place it was a miracle and we were all happy and the baby was taken into an incubator for days and I was so happy that all the struggle wasn't in vein but before the twinkle of an eyes of some days my baby didn't survive she died so I and my husband and friend wail and some how it was has though God left me but I realise that God didn't, God was fighting for me, he was routing for me, they wanted to kill me, saying people don't marry legally in my family why should I be the first and that was when I brace myself up and started trusting God with a friend of mine and upon that the devil came in another form and this other way look so hard but I had God with me, the next thing way was my Husband's love was stollen from me.
I cried and I tried, this just happened when I took in for another child and the man I fell in love with started drifting apart, the man I fell in love with started getting upset with every little thing. When I eat he will be like I ate too much, when I take things from the store I sell from he will ask me to pay for it, if I take stuff that will strengthen my weakness he will get him upset, he will complain and feel disrespected all of a sudden, the most touching one was when he said "He regretted why He married me" I called my mom but her phone went off I was losing my mind, I'm not someone that takes my husband outside I had no choice than to call a Friend I mean a prayer partner and she said to me, don't be insensitive this is not ordinary how on earth this period that you have been waiting for, this period were by the both of you were waiting for finally came and your husband love disappeared she said to me, don't respond rudely towards him and don't call your mom and report no matter what he says, you are going to use your woman power to fight and protect your baby and the evil plans of darkness and suddenly it was as though light shine in my eyes, she said prayerfully call your husband, use your soft word's, use his soft spot, she reminded me that every man has a soft spot and I told her that I can't even try using it again because I doubt if it gonna work anymore she Said to me, I should give it time and prayerfully do it, she said use wisdom and I foolishly obeyed this lady and it was like since God was about to answer me my compound people started plotting against me, they brought things and attitude out for me to suspect my husband instead of doing what I was supposed to do but I'm glad I'm in my right senses, I remembered that this marriage was God's given and the devil isn't happy a young lady of the family first in history will choose to do marriage the right way, when I realise this I told myself I'm going to be strong and I'm going to fight not alone but with God and my prayer partner as soon has I recognised this I didn't give up, I started the journey of Daily declaration over my baby, when my compound people come with their noise I knew I applied wisdom, I began to love my husband the more, I began to trust him the more and began to focus on my business and began to be more isolated from wrong energy and I began to see changes, changes in my husband life,
I didn't stop my Saturday prayer with my prayer partner a lady that has put herself to stand in the Gap because she believes if any other thing can not do it God can do it, my husband love got revived, I mean my husband's helps me with some of my dress when he is around and I have gone to the store, so to show that God was routing for me, a day came when my husband went to pack my dress outside and a lady in my compound said to my husband you are doing this so it will hurt me because I'm not married mind you, my husband said this isn't the first time she has made that statement before you know it my husband love grew so much that I'm surprised, I mean my husband when he was about going back to work he bought me necessary things, this is someone who had neglected me, someone who made me to even cut off my hair because there was no care any longer I didn't feel has though I'm a woman any longer, my husband went to get lot of stuff for me, my house that was warfare is now an Arena of Peace and Joy and what can I say. God is good. It is the way God was rooting for me. I felt blessed having seen that my story, my emotions, and my pains touched God. Who am I that He is so mindful of?
I'm so excited and so glad that my husband's love has returned, and now we can win the battle together. I was drained because without your husband's love, things can become worse. I don't even wish anyone that their husband's love should leave them because at the moment I questioned myself, but today I'm so happy, and my waiting period was worth waiting
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