Our life is like a circle and we're living in it because we're the part of this circle. Our parents raised us, give education tonus and then help us in settled our life and then we'll marrying to someone to start a new life. I'm not saying here that every couple has same goals as some like to conceive a baby earlier while some late, but i know every couple needs a baby in life no matter when they want it.
Some of us couple can't conceive a child and after trying many times they come to a decision of adopting a child but yes there's a long process to adopt a child, as obviously it's not like that you just go there at orphanage and bring a child with you but you've to finish some paperwork because now you're carrying a big responsibility it's like you're going to own a child.
Sometimes , both parents aren't ready for adopt a child and sometimes after adopting a child i see a miracle that some couple conceive a baby , then for that time in life just like now we've a baby and now we can return the kid into orphanage, No!! You can't do that, just like you can't give your child to someone after conceiving another child because it's your child and you've to accept it from the core of your heart.
Here, in Pakistan, i saw that mostly couple adopting a child from another family member, like adopting a child from his brother or sister. And they live in the same house too but the kid call mama and papa to those parents who adopt them.
In my neighbors, there's four brothers lives together, all of them marrying now and happily live with their families. One of them don't have a child so after year's they decide to took a baby from his another brother which wife was pregnant and after giving birth to the child they gave the baby to their brother, i think it is a difficult decision to give a child to your family member to raise them, now they're living in a house together. It's ok his family don't talk about it but society and people can't shut their mouth and i don't know how he feels like when he becomes adult and come to know the truth.
In my opinion, yeah it is necessary to do all that long paperwork before adopting a child because later in life to avoide from many complexities you should do the paperwork and give your name to the kid you adopt because he deserves a family too to survive in this earth. And to save the kid from further complexities in life this procedure is necessary.
That's all for today and it's my entry in this week hive learner contest in #hl-exclusive for the topic of #hl-w217e3.
