Looking at the people or listening to the stories of people that give excuses for certain mistakes they make in life especially ladies I’ll just be like it says a lot about who you are and how you developed yourself. I grew up as a girl who always survive in every situation like they were hard times and good times,I never looked for what I didn’t lose,I wasn’t curious about what was going on in the outside world,there are people who never got to suffer but are doing things that’ll make them suffer in the future,my parents were strict with me in order for us not to repeat the mistake they made,there was a time we were settled and we’re already stable financially but everything turned around again,thieves stole and withdrew the money in my parents account,my dad is into furniture works and the thieves managed to gain access to his business account,they withdrew money from it I mean all the money in it and a client just paid for the contract he gave my dad,he couldn’t believe because the money was much my dad had to do everything in order to do the project,he couldn’t afford to feed the family but still did all it takes to put food on the table then. Everything happened and went and when I referred to mistakes earlier I mean there’s a place i used to go everyday before i resumed school,it’s a gym and I sell fruit salads there, in this gym there are lots of wealthy people and important people in the society,I always minded my business and didn’t even try to get close to anyone,because of my friendly nature and joviality I was able to have friends, well I can’t call them friends exactly because most of them are older than me,I caught the attention of people with my smile in order for them to patronize me,there were times I cried because of certain things I can remember a guy his name is active,I’ve cried dozens of times because of him,this guy will talk to me anyhow and whenever he buys fruit salad he’ll not pay until I call and call and text him and he’ll still claim that he’s doing the right thing,he’ll still tell me not to disturb him for my money and whenever I need the money in order to buy the ingredients for the fruit salad I’ll text him he’ll not reply so I’ll just call him then he’ll block me saying I’m disturbing him. That’s just what he does not to talk of other hardships like the secretary always picking on me for no reason and all.
As a girl who is beautiful and endowed,many guys were already trying to get close,there’s a particular man who’s over fifty years of age,he’s really rich and he kept begging me every time,I couldn’t be rude to him for the fact that he’s a customer and an elderly person so I always declined with respect but this man never stopped,there was a particular day he called me to the car park at the back of the gym and was saying he’ll lavish his money on me he was like he’ll spoil me and as at that time i didn’t have a good phone so he said he’ll buy an iPhone for me,as a normal girl who sells fruit in order to make ends meet,he expected me to be very easy to get but he was surprised at my attitude and lack of interest in him or his money,almost every day in the gym there’s always someone that will ask for my number or try to get close even days that I just dress casual and I’m like it’s not like I’m beautiful than the girls in the gym but I wonder what they want.
So many girls who are in situations that they are in need or they’re going through tough times they’ll use it as an excuse to go into different acts,I could have also done bad stuffs in order to get money. Like the guys that were approaching me were rich and handsome but I know that they just want to get in-between my legs and grab their copy so I stood my ground and with the years I spent there I never made the mistake of falling into temptation,the wealth of these guys are really tempting and they were no ordinary people even people that I feel inferior to will approach me but I didn’t let what I was going through to make me their prey and I’ll advise every lady that they shouldn’t let hard times make them do what will make them suffer,because people have gone through worse and survived without making mistakes they can’t forgive themselves for so there’s no excuse for falling into temptation and being swayed by the things of the world.
