People love to deal with someone who doesn’t talk much and they have more love for someone who doesn’t talk when they treat them badly. Most times people who don’t talk when you treat them badly or when they are right it’s not because they don’t know what to say or they are a fool. Some people just choose to let it go because they believe their peace of mind is actually more important but this is where some people get it wrong. People believe that just because they do something to you and you don’t retaliate simply means that they keep doing it and they will always get away with it which is not right.
When two people are arguing about something even people who are wrong are always looking for ways to be right instead of saying sorry and letting the conversation die, They still want to find a way to be right. People who are right and in the process of trying to be right They might lose your peace of mind, they are so frustrated and so angry and they want to be right at all costs, and trying to be right by all means which also means that you are going to sacrifice. You’re going to sacrifice your peace of mind and most importantly you might lose some of the things that are important to you in the process
Getting angry is costly
When people provoke you and you get angry, they are letting the other side of you that you might not have control over out and where that is very tricky is if you don’t know how to control your anger, they have won the battle or the argument. It might lead to you saying things that you don’t suppose to say or doing things that you don’t suppose to do which will take away your peace of mind or even take away your life. We have people because of simple things they get angry and that is how they find themselves in jail.
I know it is human nature to always try to be right and always try to make a point but sometimes you have to let things go, it is always better because it gives you total control of the situation and it also protects you from unforeseen circumstances that might happen things that you might not imagine, and things that you might not even expect. I know the question you might be willing to ask is what you should do to someone who continues treating you badly or continues doing things to you just to make you hungry or just to get your retaliation and my answer is to just let them go.
Let it all go
Nothing is actually greater than your peace of mind and if anything is standing between you and your peace of mind, it is always better to let it go because you’re not only going to suffer from that. They’re going to be your life torment and get your retaliation, you might do unspeakable things that you might regret for the rest of your life so it is always better to let them go to protect your life to protect your safety, and to protect your peace of mind.
