I won't even lie here, being angry isn't my kind of thing, because I am someone that values my peace of mind to allow little things get to me,so it's not like people don't annoy me or that things don't get to me, I just have come to the realisation that getting angry doesn't really solve anything ,rather it give you difficult times keeping up with your day, being angry actually is draining and tiring.
Before I get angry at anyone or anything , I would have exercised alot of patience, likeeee a lot , I like to give people or things a benefit of doubt, I like to this that maybe they didn't mean to say or do what they did, i give second chances , maybe they were having a bad day, and so I try to calm down before things can escalate, I think that one thing that really shaped this part of me is just understanding how stressful life is already, there is already so much going on like work, responsibilities, personal stuff , so why would I now add some kind of unnecessary anger on top of everything? It just does not make sense to me, I would rather stay calm and protect my energy than start getting worked up over things that might not even matter in the long run.
With that being said, yes I am still human, I cannot say that I don't get angry at all , I do, but it actually takes alot to get there, it just has to be something that is repeated or something that just really crosses the line, I am not the type that something snaps at easily , if I do I get angry it will be because the thing has been something I have kept quiet about for along time, or that the thing is I have tried ignoring and it just keeps happening, and when I get angry I don't stay in that state for too long, I dont like the feeling at all, it's uncomfortable and I try as much as possible not to be in that sate too long, it just messes with your whole being, sometimes I will just stay quiet for a while, think things through, and before I know it, I have already calmed down, I don’t like dragging issues or holding grudges, It is just too heavy.
So I believe that It isn't everything that requires a reaction, you just have to try ignore somethings, some people are not even worth the stress at all, and the moment that you understand that life becomes more easy,you then start choosing your battles wisely and then you don't react to everything little thing that comes your way, at the end of the day , I do like my peace and I like that I am on control of my emotions, instead of letting them control me anyhow,, so yes , I will say I am someone who doesn't get angry easily ,I am the kind that avoid trouble as much as possible, and when it does actually happen, I find a way to find myself back to being calm.
